I have told my G.F that I love her. But she has told me that she doesnt believe in love, but when I tell her I care about her...she says I care about you more...How am I suppose to take it know knowing that she knows that I love her?
2007-02-13 18:38:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she's only scared to show that she loves you too, some people don't like to use word "love" very often
2007-02-13 18:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow..dont rush her into things. Make her believe in love. You seem like you know what ur doing and ur doing it right. Just try to move slow. Dont feel all wierd just because you told her. Prove to her that u meant what u said. If you start acting different and wierd around her, the change might put on a bad impression to her. Then she really wont believe in love! Just act the same, but continue to grow your feeling onto her :)
2007-02-14 02:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by TiGoBiTiZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do love her, just go with the flow and don't push things for a while. She might need time. Maybe she does love you but is afraid to say it. Maybe she has issues with the idea of love, or maybe she is hesitant to get serious and committed. But if she says she cares, take her word for it and don't pressure her for more. Eventually her feelings and intentions for you will become clear. It's her actions that will say she loves you, more than words.
2007-02-14 02:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by Gwendolyn R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the behind. You messed up BIG time. Telling you love her is petty. Actions that demonstrate you love her is another. And from the way she's reacting to your "I love you", your being too needy. Step back, be confident that she knows you love her and that she loves you back unconditionally. Nothing turns a woman off more then when you keep saying "I love you" over and over again begging for a mutual response. It shows insecurity....
2007-02-14 02:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by Herbal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're GF needs to read a book about Love and what it is. Not believe in love is kinda weird... Why is she even dating if she doesn't believe in love? She is crazy... Get her a book about love for V-day :)
2007-02-14 02:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by The Stig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only have two choices dude, find a way to get past it or get out of the relationship and find someone who will say "I love you", which seems extreme. So, be thankful that she "cares about you more" and hope that one day she'll say "I love you too".
Good luck!
Aloha!!
2007-02-14 02:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying she doesn't believe in love is an absurdity. Maybe she is saying she doesn't believe in love with you. If it is working with you as it then let it ride. Otherwise find someone that doesn't make you feel so insecure.
2007-02-14 02:43:01 · answer #7 · answered by smtilley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's confusing! I just the only thing you can really do is talk to her and asks how she feels... orry this may not really help but this is a tough one and I think only your G.F. has the answer to it :o)
2007-02-14 02:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows, maybe she has been hurt, and doesn't believe in love, people use it so loosely anymore, she may not know.. If you care for her hang-in there..
2007-02-14 02:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is scared. Scared to fall in love, and scared to admit when she is in love. She has probably been hurt in the past, and afraid to expose her heart fully again.
2007-02-14 02:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by Speedy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋