hi guys n gals! please avdise me as problem is like this -
I was a merchandiser, 1.5 months back i changed my line due to not getting enough money and job in that field. I have been shifted to secreterial field. Now problem si that in this job i'm so idle, so free, just don't have any work to do. So, I started surfing yahoo answers. one day i ask a quest. on i this and a guy reverted bak to me on my messenger, by mistake i forgot to cancel my id from that. Then in a day he started liking me and we become good frens. Let me tell u I'm 25 and married for 3yrs.I love mu hubby alot and same is from that side. But thsi guy told me that he love me..and he was getting serious day by day. he has never seen me, but due to my nature and my thinking, he started loving me. I don't know wat was the problem but i was not able to leave him. actualli i was so much free, so use to hear hi. But when i started feeling guilty that i have not told it to my hubby, that i'm getting attracted to anotherguy
2007-02-13 18:33:43 · 13 answers · asked by sanna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he just told me that it happen, just leave it the way it is and stop talking to thatb guy. I told that guy that i'll not speak to him and after 2 days i again started talikng to him. Now i daily talk to him. I know u guys will think that i love him but no i love my hubby alot. Thare is everything very special in our relationship. I think i'm very free that's why i speak to him. But i'm not getting any other job so i would have switched. Now i have not told anything to my hubby, i feell guilty. And that person is from Bombay and i'm from delhi. He never call me on my cell but i use to call him whenever i get bore. So my phone bills are coming so much. But that guy never call me and he call himself kanjoos. Please avdise i'm so much confused. My hubby is a very nice and gentle person, he trust me alot. I never ever want to hurt him. BUt i'm not able to leave thsi guy. HELP!!!!
2007-02-13 18:39:01 · update #1
Let me tell u guys i have seen his pictures, he is not at all good looking. he has never seen me.
2007-02-13 18:40:06 · update #2
sorry if this sounds hard but you are being selfish to your husband.i understand that you havent told him and why should you burden him with this hurt.you married him so you must have loved him at some stage.forget this other guy and show your husband the love and respect he deserves.
2007-02-13 18:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by desert daisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Lady
How can love be established between two people without seeing each other? what you are experiencing is just a temptation which will not last for a long time. I advise focus on your life and do not spare your Love with anyone except your Hobby
2007-02-13 18:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by nader f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop what your doing, how can you be in love with someone you have never even seen IRL! You have a husband at home your his wifey. Grow up and act like a wife not a teenage girl playing on the computer!
2007-02-13 18:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by Megz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. First off, don't ever leave the "secreterial field" - I can tell that you are very good at it.
Second, don't tell your husband. He doesn't need to know anything until you serve the divorce papers.
Third, before you ever meet this mystery man face to face, be sure to tell him you love him. Make plans to meet someplace private, like a parking lot in the middle of the night, or a cheap motel room.
Fourth, please DO NOT BREED, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES, I REPEAT, DO NOT BREED!
2007-02-13 18:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by wuxxler 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I judged as per your statement as follows.
'' You want to spend your time with a Known man irrespective of Money Loss, and feel fresh and secured that some companion experience like this Helps in future to lead Life with Ease ''
2007-02-14 02:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by kumar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, you may desire to incredibly love him in case you have stood via him this long. confident, he can exchange, if he needs to. i think of the two one among you may attempt counseling mutually extremely of basically him, it is going to coach you a thank you to to comprehend greater valuable the place issues began going incorrect. additionally, in case you adult men stay mutually, reassure him which you would be the female to offer him the attention that he craves, and he won't would desire to flow someplace else (i'm no longer announcing you probably did no longer provide him interest in the previous, whether it may help him to pay attention it). additionally, interestingly like the two one among you're/ have been very close acquaintances and you've got a effective relationship if its what you the two p.c.. bear in mind that something is attainable if there is adequate love, and that i do no longer think of you may provide up. i think all and sundry merits a 2nd threat. i do no longer think of you may come again mutually amazing away, yet perchance inspire him to maintain working at it, and allow him comprehend he's doing incredibly sturdy. Then perchance in some greater months, advantages him for his perplexing paintings and tell him you're arranged to offer it yet another flow. yet, be careful, if he hurts you back, that's time to declare see you later for sturdy. I choose you the final of success!
2016-10-02 02:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too confused & find yourself in the middle of everythig.
I would advise you to be focussed in your marriage regarding the new friend you must make it clear that your are married & not intrested.You can take evasive seps by avoiding to be in touch with him.If not handled properly you will unnecessarily go through suffering & pain.
2007-02-13 18:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by casper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your husband, stay with him. Is everything going okay with your marriage?
Is this new guy just an excuse because your marriage isn't fulfilling?
If your marriage is fulfilling, and you want to remain married, do that. The way you do that is to discontinue speaking to the man on the net.
2007-02-13 18:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by alareryu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give that one up baby.
The guy online is a chance you're taking. The hubby is the evil that you know.
Concentrate your IM or email on the hubby instead. Fix what's broke.
2007-02-13 18:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by David W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... I'll meet up with him if I were you. Else I'll just break all contacts which obviously you cant do right now. But take note such things never end happy.... Good luck dear... Omigod... I think I like you too!
2007-02-13 18:46:26 · answer #10 · answered by Luffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋