I know he doesn't mean anything by it and its only when his drunk, and were really good mate, like best mates. But wen my boyfriends best mate get drunk he always but his arm around me and gets real close, like his gonna kiss me... Corse he doesn't. Anyway it makes me feel uncomfortable,
it doesn't seem to bother my boyfriend, its done right infront of him and he neva says anything. But I feel thats its inapropriate, what do you think
Plus he get quite flirty but nothin to obvious
Guys can you tell me why he might be doin this, and why he finds it ok evan infront of my boyfriend
2007-02-13 18:33:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think of it this way :- the man is DRUNK (He does not know what is his doing) and as for your boyfriend, he might think that this is only a friendly gesture (like a buddy buddy kind of thing) which guys usually do.
Don't think so much of it and just let the matter go over after the days and be cool!!!
2007-02-13 18:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does it because you're so bloody cute that he can't resist you.Some guys get overly affectionate when they get sloppy , even toward their friends-ie " I love you man". He doesn't have a lady of his own I take it? I think you should talk to him when he is sober and tell him that you are not comfortable with his behaviour when he drinks. Your guy should also sense that it is inappropriate and nicely tell his friend to spread out.It is because your man allows it that the the guy continues. If that doesn't work you have two more options. 1. Plant a sloppy wet kiss on him infront of your boyfriend-could go either way though....or 2. a short, sharp, shot to the nuts below table level while wearing a perfectly lovely smile. This one leaves no room for misinterpretation....happy VD....hahaha
2007-02-13 18:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love Herbal's answer. That's about the size of the situation. As far as what to do you should tell your b/f about how it makes you feel. Be nice and discrete about it when you tell him. If your b/f gives you the respect that you deserve then he will put his friend in his proper place. If he respects his friend more than you, this behavior will continue. Let him know how it makes you feel. He may think that it doesn't bother you, so in turn it doesn't bother him either. Open your mouth and tell him.
2007-02-13 18:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's one of two possibilities:
A) Obviously the guy is madly in LOVE with you and only by getting hampskied, he can use it as an excuse to flirt with you. Anything further then flirting will cause him to get beaten into a bloody pulp by his friend
B) These two guys are close and are true bro's. They share their ho's and nothing like sharing the wealth. But of course....His friend gets first dibs. Delish!
2007-02-13 18:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Herbal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a private difficulty, blokes get very soft, inspite of alternative adult men whilst under the effect of alcohol, yet whilst it makes you sense uncomfortable, basically snort and take his arm away, if he does it greater, then basically say you arent partial to it.
2016-10-02 02:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an ar*hol*... No respect 4 your wimpy/ drunk boyfriend...
Oh.. you do the things tt makes u comfortable. If it's wrong u feel, den it's wrong. I think he's wrong too. Both ur bf and his so called "fren"
2007-02-13 18:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by Luffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your boyfriend wants three sum, they two and you can make the action 3 sum.
2007-02-13 18:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by birdblackwhite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
push him away but laugh it off like its nothing serious. He likes you and can't help himself.
2007-02-13 18:37:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mfm 3sum they want.
2007-02-13 18:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋