I'm 20 and i'm going to school tomorrow (college, not highschool :)
2007-02-13 18:28:03 · 19 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you do something nice for a girl instead of hitting on her.
2007-02-13 18:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How to handle holidays is a crucial part of relationship management. And since relationship management begins before you sleep with a woman, your Valentine’s Day strategy is
important, regardless of your circumstance.
If you are NOT involved with someone:
- Do not contact her on Valentine’s Day. Do not send flowers, anonymous or not. Go “dark”
- A day or two after Valentine’s Day (Wednesday, February 14 th), call her and tell her a funny story about something that happened when you were out with a “friend” on “Wednesday”. Be subtle – she’ll put two and two together – and make your story take place somewhere romantic but not over the top, and, importantly, somewhere that will sound fun to her. Make the setting the background to the story. A story about a woman taking off her shoes to dance and then seeing them slide over the deck into the water while you and friend went on a dinner/cruise works better than a dry recitation of “we did this” and “then we did that”. The latter be a transparent attempt to make her jealous or would brand you as a player.
-Don’t ask her what she did on “Wednesday” or “Valentine’s Day”. Assume that she was either alone or with a lesser man. Don’t react or be interested.
-Go out and meet women! Women who go out on Valentine’s Day are looking for romance and to feel better about themselves. Prepare for questions like “Why aren’t you with someone tonight?” and “Why don’t you have a girlfriend”. An okay all-purpose answer to these is to say “because I just MET you, silly” and continue on with whatever you were talking about before.
-Don’t get drunk and get tempted to call someone you wish you were with.
- Don’t stay sober and get tempted to call someone you wish you were with.
-A mass text message of “Happy Valentine’s Day” to all of the women in your phone may prompt some women to text back, possibly revealing new or buried interest you.
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2007-02-13 18:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by Herbal 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The women I used to work with, working, not in school, liked seeing the flowers or cards, or balloons that came in for other coworkers. We would all flock to that desk and ooh and aah over it, so I'm sure a woman that was left out and didn't get any card or anything would be more than happy for someone.
I would not expect it to last though, so maybe question your motive, since you might get lucky for a week or so.....Then, that does not surprise me about a guy to think that way, maybe I should have just reccomended not to do anything......You seem like a typical male.
2007-02-13 18:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's go for the hit on girls like crazy. If it's out of your character they'll probable think that it's cute. You might end up with someone to hang with.
2007-02-13 18:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels natural.
How do you treat your mother? Many girls feel if you are respectful to her, you will treat them well. But if you are too much of a Momma's boy, that is not good either.
Are you good with animals? Girls like a guy who is caring, sensitive. No, you don't have to be metrosexual; in fact, that's probably more of a negative than a positive.
Good luck.
2007-02-13 18:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get mad, Dude, but I think you are pretty harmless. I would let you talk to my sister if we were in the same neighborhood.
Would suggest tho that you pick on one girl who looks lonely and offer her a cup of coffee...then tell her you are shy and you don't know how you got up the courage to ask her out even for coffee.
2007-02-13 18:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Harry T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird an answer as it may be, hit on every alone girl you find. At the very minimum, she'll feel special. At best, she'll flirt back and notice you next time.
Have fun! ;0)
2007-02-13 18:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by Lee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happy V-Day and I urge you to go out with all your friends and enjoy your youth lives. Do not be shy if someone you know ask you out. If not who cares. Go to the restaurant with friends and eat good food and enjoy each others company. Do not hesitate to have a joy life. Good luck.
2007-02-13 18:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Puah ha. Don't hit on girls because you never know if they have a boyfriend that might smack ya from behind. It's safest to hit on girls after V-day. Just be nice.
2007-02-13 18:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by bebeeangeldust 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should look for a cute girl and try to get a valentine to buy candy for and go to dinner and then drink wine
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Girls love red wine!
2007-02-13 18:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by Megz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋