i love her, theres nothing more i want to do than to hold her in my arms right now.. we just broke up.. i can't deal with the thought of losing her!! anyone... how can i overcome this....
2007-02-13 18:24:00 · 14 answers · asked by Moto 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love her that much, it will take time, the hurt will go on everyday when you wake up and go to sleep at night, you will wonder if you will go through the rest of your life hurting the way you do...But time does make it easier and you will get over it..someone will come along or maybe you and her will make ammends...whatever you will get over it...Just remember the feelings you have now, and try not to hurt anyone else along the way...If I had any wish in life it would be that people respect others feelings...I wish you luck.....
2007-02-13 18:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well is there anyway to fix the break up? If not, I know it is hard but you need to change your frame of mind. Find things to do with friends...visit family...all of those things you have put off because perhaps she didn't enjoy them...have fun with them. Get yourself in a positive attitude. Just as many women do get dressed up and go out for a night on the town. For me it was finding something I hated about the person. Find a reason to hate them, and it seems much easier to deal with. We choose how things go...by how we handle the situations we are put in. Come to the conclusion that God has a better plan for you. One thing I never got was if someone loves somebody else so much why don't they ever want someone else who may be better for them. Realize that there may be a need you are not filling, love her enough to allow her to find that person. Love is not about taking...It's about giving. Give her the respect to let her go on. Write down how you feel and be done choose to move on. We make choices of how we feel. One can choose to love, one can chose to feel many feelings. One can also choose to change those feelings. These are just some ideas. Hope this helps. Good Luck!
2007-02-13 18:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by summera76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want her to be in your arms then you have to fight for it to make her realize that you are worthy and deserve to be loved.
If she already rejected you so many times...c'mon think again maybe you are loving the wrong person and if ever you still choose to love her despite of the rejection then you have to accept that your happiness can be found in a broken heart tsk tsk tsk how sad it could be. But if you want to grow and become the best you can be then you have to prove to your self that you are worth to be love then day by day work it out everyday make an effort on things that could make you feel happy then later you will realized you are happy even without her and you will turn out to be successful in the in new set of friends/people or field or craft you've chosen to be devoted on and by that time many women will be get interested on you and maybe, she will regret rejecting you before! Life is too short to be wasted the moment you let yourself stuck in REJECTION then the moment you are supposed to be happy will be gone forever. BE HAPPY TAKE THAT REJECTION AS A CHALLENGE!
2007-02-13 18:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by the wanderer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship is meant to be, it will work out.
Give her time to cool down and think...to reevaluate the relationship. Then ask her if she is willing to give it a go again.
It's a good time for you to reevaluate things too. What's bothering her? What can you change in your life, that she doesn't like, that wouldn't change what she loves about you?
The best way to change someone else, is to change yourself.
It may sound cliche or corney, but it's true.
People react to how you act and vise versa.
If that doesn't work, then wish her well and have a good life yourself.
Good luck !!!
2007-02-13 18:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by flyinghawk0727 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurry up and visit the bar. Drink a lot of alcohol. Smoke weed, which also puts you in a stealth mood... You know what I mean? You said you found somebody new----but that won't stop me from loving you--- I can't just let you walk a way----forget the love I have for you----Yes, I could find somebody too---But I don't no one but you---
2007-02-13 18:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry. Eat icecream. Make all your friends listen to you . Then, when you feel a little better, pick yourself up by your bootstraps, wipe away the tears, and show her what she's missing out on! But do not call her..No, do NOT- i repeat, DO NOT call her. Do not stalk her. Do not beg her. Do not be mean. Just be you, and if it's meant to be, she'll be begging you to come back to her!
2007-02-13 18:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me over a year to get over my ex. We were totally in love, but then he got into drugs and it was complicated. It's going to hurt for a long time.
I'm sorry. Try not to dwell on it too much... :0(
Good luck!
2007-02-13 18:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have any discipline in yourself or like try really hard to accept the situation, then you can move on. you need full acceptance first before you can move on, without acceptance, then there is no way for you to move on.....
2007-02-13 18:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey
go to her with something she likes
tell her sorry even if there is no reason
tell her what u feel for her
then let life take its course
2007-02-13 18:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by Deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should of done everything in your power to keep her when you had her. Now she's gone and i hope she doesn't come back
2007-02-13 18:27:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋