stressing out about other peoples drama 8 mths prego?

Question

MY brother and fiance work together to make a long story short my brother got in some drama with my cousin and later on in the day my cousin came over to tell me her story of what happend between my brother and her. The next day my fiance told my brother what happend. I was soo furious because i didnt want want to be in the middle of the drama im 8 months prego and my fiance knows that i dont need to be stressing about things like that . when my fiance came over i talked to him about we got in a big argument and im at my moms house . My fiance couldnt understand why i was mad. IM mad because he shpuld of left that information at him what goes on in our home should stay in our home.me and my brother dont really talk because I feel he is selfish in some ways he has not been apart of any of my pregancy he dosent ask how im doing or if im okay so thats why i just stay my distance because i dont want to be in the drama .so my question is how should i feel.

Answer 1

Nobody can tell you how to feel, i think you should start telling people how they make you feel. I believe this would stop you from stressing about other peoples drama, you will realize that people do not even stress or care about their own issues but yiu stress more about it than they do. Yes you should be upset with your fiance for telling what you told him, you should not have left and went to your mothers house you should let him know how you feel but you decided to run away instead of run to him and tell him what he did wrong and how it made you feel. Ask your brother what kind of relationship he will have with his niece or nephew? Let him know that you would like for him to be more involved,We always want people to react the way we want them to, We have to learn to teach people how we want to be treated. Remember you are pregnant right now and your hormones are going crazy alot of your emotions can be coming from this. HEY! Go back home to your fiance he did not mean you any harm. GOOD LUCK WITH BABY! FIANCE AND BROTHER!

Answer 2

YOu're pregnant and you hormones are a little crazy. You may be over reacting just a little bit but people around you should be understanding. They should know that you're under a lot of stress and try to minimize it but sometimes it doesn't work that way and you need to try to forgive. I mean you can have your moment and be mad and furious but try to understand that other people really don't understand what you're going through. Every pregnacy is different and you may just be having a hard time with it at the moment.

Answer 3

i also do not think your fiance should have told your brother what happened in your house. It seems like you are betraying your cousin's trust somehow..but please don't stress about it - negative vibes not very good for baby, especially being so far along. Dont be too angry with your fiance, sometimes guys don't just see the implication of these things the way we see it, that's why he can't understand why you are so upset about it! please let it go and focus on what's more important - you & baby..

And before I forget, talk toyour cousin and let her know that you are not the one who told your bro about what she came to discuss with you..just to clear yourself..

All the best with your coming bundle of joy!

Answer 4

You are hormonal from the pregnancy. You will have to explain to your boyfriend why you are mad. Just remember you are more sensitive while pregnant, but your boyfriend is not....

Good luck....

Answer 5

ur right just ttry to relaz cuz u don't need this i'm sure ur fiancee will understand later on

Answer 6

SHUT UP!!!!! you should be worried about being fat ugly and pregnant...not some 1 else