Guys- Would you be physically attracted to a girl with some stretch marks?

Question

Im not talking about she looks like a deflated souffle, but maybe shes got a couple because she used to be fat. I guess im asking this question for myself, because I recently gained weight this past year (which Im in the middle of loosing right now), and Ive got a few stretch marks right above my butt, which are kinda not that bad.

what do you think?

Answer 1

Honey, I'm not a guy but I saw your question and it just breaks my heart.

Please don't put your worth or even the tiniest part of it on something like this. Even basing your attractiveness on the small flaw of a few stretch marks is such a shame.

We women bear such a burden when held up against such flawless beauty of the plastic airbrushed women of the media.

Please know that sexy can be acheived against much bigger odds than a couple of stretch marks.

You won't be able to tell much from it but I'll tell you a couple of secrets. Go to my 360 link. Ok, I look alright. I'm 46 and single and date when I feel like it. And I'm not braging here, OK, but I will tell you that I am considered VERY sexy and desirable by the men who have dated me. Why? It's not my looks. And not only am I ordinary looking, pretty average, but I also am 5'4" and weigh 140 so I'm not really thin either. I'm pretty curvy. I'm not really young, of course. My t*ts are hardly hard as rocks anymore, I mean really. I have a pretty huge abdominal scar from 2 major surgeries, I never have a tan, as I don't go out into the sun, not EVER, my hair is getting thin because of medications that I'm on, I have more scars on my right shin from an accident, my stomach is really out of shape as I can't excersize due to a spinal injury and disease, which also means that ALL of me is not really in good shape. But men really dig me anyway. Even nude, even in the light, in the sack, with everything showing, at my worst. It's because I never let em see me sweat. NEVER. I never act like that stuff bothers me and I had to do a lot of soul searching to get to this point. I had to come to terms with my body and what it really means to be female. I do my best to play to men when I'm with them, not in a phony way, it's my nature as Im fairly submissive, I like it when they are in control, when I can be very girlie, and when I'm handled just a little. I take the focus off my body with my eyes, my actions, things like the way I smell, what I do and what I say. If you are keeping his senses busy with everthing else, those few little stretch marks are nothing. Believe me, honey NOTHING. Just remember that being female is SOOO much more than how you look. It's how you feel (soft skin, curves) how you taste (clean) how you smell (perfumed, powdered, washed) how you sound (your voice, your tone, what you say, how you say it, how you make him feel about himself and what he's doing, talking a little dirty if that's what he's into), and how the rest of you might look. Just put the focus elsewhere if it bothers you.

And last. Don't bed a man who doesn't care for you. I don't screw men who love me, but I don't do men who don't respect me, care for me, value me, want to please me, and who don't bother to get to know me.

So, please put away your worry, stand tall and love you. I do.

Answer 2

I happen to be a voluptous woman....and I have quite a few stretch marks. And I have had them my whole life before I got curvy. When I was younger I shot up to 6'2" and ended up with stretch marks on my shoulders and legs. They happen, and probably to about 90% of the worlds population. It's nothing to worry about. If someone loves you they don't even have to "look past it" because they won't notice in the first place. You are flawless and beautiful and if someone doesn't like it tell them to go FU** themselves.

Answer 3

Stretch marks really isn't a big deal. It bothers women more than men. I'd date a girl with that. If the stretch marks were so horrible that she looked like an incredible monster, I'd have to change my mind. But that usually isn't the case.

Answer 4

Above the butt I actually quite like. Guys like girls, it's really that simple- if girls have stretch marks then guys are ok with it....... Everyone probably wants the perfect partner but back in the real world we just find someone nice and enjoy what they have to offer.

Answer 5

Whats a few stretch marks no big deal, im 6'1 tall and used to be 300pds, lost weight right now im about 195, you should see the stretch marks.

Answer 6

Don't focus on those things, if a guy is worried about the stretch marks he is shallow and not worth your time. I didn't know I had stretch marks till my X-boyfriend pointed them out to me during sex. He is not in my life anymore because he's a shallow jerk. Most of the time guys don't even notice those things.... forget those losers and be secure with yourself.

Answer 7

So long as all the vital bits are in good working order, most blokes will overlook just about anything. Especially if they are not visible when you are out and about.

Answer 8

My wife has them, and dammit, I've remained totally faithful to her and think she's attractive, so yes some guys don't mind. It would take someone very shallow to hold that against a girl.

Answer 9

I got some stretch marks on my @ss and yeah.. my parner stil finds me very attractive. We have great sex.. and he's crazy about me. So I guess it ain't matter.

Answer 10

THEY ARENT THAT BAD AND YOUR WORKING ON IT. ID BE VERY ATTRACTED TO YOU SINCE YOU DONT LOOK LIKE A DEFLATED SOUFFLE. IF THERES TOO MANY WRINKLES ITS DIFFICULT TO FIND THE RIGHT PLACE.