ok i like two guys one is really popular and likes preppy girls which i am not but my friends are and we talk a little. the other is so sweet and i like him too and he flirts with me and he's not part of the popular group so thats good but he's shorter than me and the other guys is taller than me and there is so many ways they are different. so should i go with the nice and caring guy or should i go with the popular guy that gets all they attention? HELP!!!
2007-02-13 18:02:45 · 19 answers · asked by dgrassiluver1209 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say go for the nice and caring guy. The popular guy might not treat you as nicely as the other guy. If you are not a preppy kind of person, you shouldn't change yourself to be noticed by some guy. It all makes sense! It might also be a little easier to be noticed by the nice and caring guy, than someone who is popular, gets all the attention, and into girls you aren't like. :) :) :)
I hope this was helpful. (I was in the same situation a while back)
2007-02-13 18:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by Twig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say go with the nice and caring guy, but some guys use that as an act.
In terms of how to get a guy to like you, well, you have it easy, because you're the girl and the tradition is that the guys have to get you to like them. Anyway, if you want to be proactive, giving guys attention who seldom experience it will make them fall for you quickly. I know a girl who does that. She has so many guys that have a crush on her. She'll never be lonely. At the same time, I suppose most guys who don't get a whole lot of attention have a reason about their personality as to why they don't, so there are always pros and cons.
2007-02-14 11:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 5.6" tall and my short stature had always been an impediment for achieving poise and self-confidence. It was about two years ago that I met my wife and we almost instantly made connection. She is about half an inch shorter than me but I would always feel a little insecure whenever she wore sandals. This would make her look much taller than myself. Not that anything wrong with that but society collectively feeds us with some stereotypes and a guy shorter than a woman would always raise eyebrows. My wife (who back then was my girlfriend) was conscious of myself being a little uneasy. She started coaching me on improving my dress coordination and also suggested that I should try wearing those walktall shoes. Doing a little research myself I gathered some info on stretching exercises. Although it’s true that exercises will not make you grow taller but it definitely helped me improve my posture. We certainly have more height hidden behind our slouched back and shabby dressing than we ever realize. There are some very basic stretching exercises and vertical fashion techniques that together can make a noticeable improvement in your height. And lastly it’s all a matter of perception. It all boils down to how we perceive ourselves. A better height can add to our confidence, but again, it’s our mind that perhaps makes us insecure. Some short dudes possess endless energy that makes their presence much taller than their height. You can follow the link below to get more info on posture exercises and some basic visual height enhancement techniques:
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Good luck
2007-02-14 23:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The nice and carring one allways. Uhh just tell him, thats what I would want. Even if I don't like someone and I'm not in a relationship I would still go out with them because everyone deserves a chance. Ex. That guy in class that sleeps all day and never turns my homework in (me) actully has an IQ of 180+ I'm just a procrastinator. Give everyone a fair chance.
2007-02-14 02:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by darrkadlubowski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think that's obvious. I mean, the popular guy isn't worth it. You'll never see his true self, and he'll use you to get what he wants. The sweet guy is the one you should go for, because you know already that he'll treat you well, with respect and love. Well, whatever you do, I hope you can be happy. Have an awesome day!!! :)
2007-02-14 02:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by Emilie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the nice short guy. Popular means nothing.
2007-02-14 02:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go with the guy who ask you out first and act like you are his friend. Then you have time to find out which one likes you as a girlfriend. Do not flirt with them yet until one of them com mitt to you. Meanwhile time will tell and trust your first gut feeling when you are alone with these 2 guys. Happy V-day to you and Yours.
2007-02-14 02:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy that actually likes you will stay with you for a longer time than the other guy.
The popular guy will have girls around him all of the time, and i dont know if that's what you want...
2007-02-14 02:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NICE AND CARING, I mean do you really want a ton of girl flirting wit hyour boyfriend and plus he probly a sleeze most popular guys are
2007-02-14 02:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by BubbleyChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice and caring guy.
The popular guy will dump you when he finds someone else more interesting.
2007-02-14 02:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by Guess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋