I have a girlfriend who argues with me constantly. Lately I have meet a beautiful woman online—I have seen pictures of her, seen her on webcam to prove she is actually a woman and who she says she is. But I have not told my girlfriend this—I believe she would be furious when she finds out. I don’t think this is cheating because we haven’t touched only talked online and two times on the phone. Luckily she has the same name as my girlfriend so I don’t accidentally call my girlfriend another name. Is this cheating and should I tell my girlfriend about her?
2007-02-13 18:02:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you think?
You know what it is. If your girlfriend isn't treating you right then it's more revenge than cheating.
You'll have to decide for yourself what you want to do.
2007-02-13 18:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS CHEATING when you think you are lucky to have them having the same names!
If you need to wait until both of you touch to consider that as cheating, your relationship will be doomed by then.
You don't want to tell your girlfriend cos you want to avoid argument. But do you really think that is the right way to solve the problem?
The fact that you say she's beautiful etc means you are already interested in her...
Make up your mind.
2007-02-14 02:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you can't be honest with your girlfriend about it, then yeah you are cheating. Should you tell her? If you tell her, you know that she will never look at you the same again. She will have a hard time trusting you. If you aren't happy with your girlfriend, then breakup with her. But you shouldn't really go behind her back like that...
2007-02-14 02:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by Chris H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if you are talking on the phone and its in a romantic way, or you are looking for something to happen, then wheter you use a computer or not, its still the same as "talking" to a woman at a bar and giving her your number.
2007-02-14 02:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breakup with your gf if she's still argues with you alot and then tell her the truth but either way, she most likely would dump you first if you told her about the online woman.
2007-02-14 02:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by Đarah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are doing is the same as cheating. Tell your girlfriend the truth so she can dump you.
2007-02-14 02:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by holly 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes this is cheating, you should end it with you girlfriend before she gets hurt
2007-02-14 02:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by BubbleyChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋