I don't know why, but I am always attracted to guys with girlfriends. Even guys who I didn't find attractive before will get a gf and I am all of a sudden attracted to them. I think it has something to do with knowing that there is little chance they will want a relationship (Which is something I am not wanting right now). There is also the idea that it is scandalous. Like in high school when you did things bc your parents told you not to.
2007-02-13 17:52:31 · 5 answers · asked by heidi v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Subconsciously you're causing yourself to be attracted to guys who are unavailable. Until you're ready for a relationship you probably wont be attracted to someone who's single.
Now if only I can figure out why I'm attracted to losers.
2007-02-13 18:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is because you have self-esteem and insecurity issues which lead you to like boys that are emotional unavailable. They are attractive to you because they will never be able to fully emotionally invest in you because there is another girl in the picture. Unless you work on these issues, it is highly probable that you will not have a healthy romantic relationship.
2007-02-14 02:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a safety issue. What I mean is that you may want someone who is unable to commit to you. Like you said, you are not really wanting a relationship right now. This one reason that I liked the past two guys.
2007-02-14 02:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by iamnotme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your own questions...because you won't have to worry about commitment or strings being attached, and because of the thrill of the idea of seducing someone who is taken. However, in the end, you will probably get tired of it. And be careful, because, a) you may really cause trouble and pain for others, and b) you just might fall in love with one of these guys who will not leave his woman for you, and you will end up with a broken heart.
2007-02-14 01:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by mzstorm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just like seeing if you can take them away from there girlfriends it boost your ego.
2007-02-14 01:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by luv babygurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋