I think im an attractive female that has a nice round face with big beautiful lips and it drives me wild how some of my friends tell me about some guy who tried to holla at them or how some guy is throwing theirselves to them. And when they ask me if any guys are doing the same? I say no that hasnt happend to me and I get this feeling inside like im ugly or something. Do anyone have friends that tell you "supposedly" some guy tried to holla at them like all the time. Truthfully I dont know if i should believe them anymore because to me they seem average to me.
Please only serious answers.
2007-02-13 17:44:29 · 23 answers · asked by spaffychic1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are many variables that could be at work here. The first one is that your g/f's could be exaggerating just a little bit. It could also be a situation where your g/f's have the type of energy/personality that attracts aggressive men (that does not mean the right kind of guys necessarily). If that is the case then naturally they will have a lot more "war stories" to tell about the opposite sex. I think the main issue with you is that you just don't know how to flirt. You may be the type of woman that doesn't come off as "easy" to men, be it your style of dress, attitude, or both. In that case in order to attract respectable men you need to draw them in by flirting. Be subtle about it. It only take a few quick glances from you or a nice smile and that's it. The rest is up to him. One last thing. Don't let your g/f's make you feel that you are somehow less desirable then they are. Any woman can have some random dude come up to them and say some cheesy line. It takes a real woman and a real man to understand the rules of seduction and attraction. Learn how to flirt and you will draw in the type of men that you want, not just the idiots. This session is free, but the next one will cost you lol. Don't let those full lips go to waste.
2007-02-13 18:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are fit, nice stomach, nice bum, and got boobs you're gold. I hate to say it, but fitness has a lot to do with whether your holla at. Also, it depends on the places you hang out at, and how you conduct yourself, and how old you are or look. This is how it works for me, on my superficial days. Also, don't be so quick to judge others and put them down. You prob are not ugly. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
2007-02-14 01:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no youre not ugly
its just a different story for you
were the same you know were not the easy to get cheap kind of women that get hollered too all the time
we attract considerably simple and very few men,mature men, who like to take things slow and not concentrate on the physical
no were not ugly, we just have high standards and our beauty differs from the rest,
were not just about anyone, were someone better
youre not ugly
as you said they are pretty average, average men get attracted to average women
men know we have something more that they cant compete with and they dont have the capacity to do so
and it would be better if they just leave us alone
2007-02-14 01:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky not to be bothered. You are not ugly or anything it just means the time has not come yet and thats why nobody has approached so far. Never feel low about this and be happy and talk with any person you are interested with a pleasing face and nature would take care of the rest.
2007-02-14 01:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be the guys are intimidated by you because they consider you very secure with yourself. Maybe your friends have the "easy look to them - easy to pick up, etc." It doesn't mean you are ugly in no way, most guys that holler at women aren't worth the bother. They usually holler at all types of women just wanting to get a reaction. Be secure with yourself and don't worry about what others think about you.
2007-02-14 01:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because I guy doesn't talk to you doesnt mean you are ugly.There are several reasons he may not talk to you..He could be shy, late for an appointment or in deep thought about something.And if a guy wouldnt talk to me because he thought I was ugly;I dont need to be talking to him anyway.He can keep stepping.
yes, we all have freinds that think all the guys are talking to them. And some stretch the truth to make them feel good.
2007-02-14 01:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by prettycoolchick38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds that ur friends are too into themselves. lol. i think they are bragging about something that didnt really happen plus they probably just making themselves feel better about themselves for lying or those guys know something about ur friends that they're easy or slutty. why would u need a guy to make u feel that ur pretty, when u already know that u r? just have fun and dont worry about what ur friends brag about...u have better things to do then that.
2007-02-14 01:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by JANE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Maybe you have an elevated opinion of yourself?
2007-02-14 01:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by sirdoctorfine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When they don't listen to you, is when you know your not only ugly but also fat. If he doesn't talk to you, he's seeing somebody else. Don't worry, they're stupid. If he gets drunk enough, he'll come back to you, and tell you to shutup, so he can talk about this other broad.
2007-02-14 01:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by hoodwink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be ur attitude or personality, also ur friends could be exaggerating or better looking than u think, most likely i think its ur attitude, cuz guys actually do care about that eveen though u don't think so, don't worry about it u'll get what u need
2007-02-14 01:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by wafflehouse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋