This of course would be for younger people.
2007-02-13 17:18:24 · 18 answers · asked by zander1331 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave her the hell alone til she finishes college. Get a good job, then come back.
2007-02-13 17:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Respect her parents wishes, in the long run they may allow you to date her earlier then they normally would have because they have seen that you care about their rules. If you try to date her behind their backs, they will find out and most likely you will never be allowed to see her again. You can still talk on the phone and study together or even go for walks and not actually be dating, take what you can get and hope they come around.
2007-02-14 01:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prove to the girl's parents why they should let you date. If there is a reason why they won't let you date, try working on the issue so they can see that you care enough of what they think to try to win their approval. Good luck!
Sneaking around will just end up in more trouble, then when they catch on, consider things done.
2007-02-14 01:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by lrna83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right... sneak it, they say... jeez. Like that she'll feel guitly about it, feel she has to choose between you or her parents. Absolutely. Great solution. No. Talk to her parents, ask them why they won't let you date her, compromise.
Ex:
Maybe they're not ok with you taking her out alone. In that case, you go out with friends, and don't go against their wishes.
Let me say this: good parents know when their kid is lying. If the girl is hiding things from them, they might not know WHAT, but they'll know somethings not quite right, and will guess its you, whereas if you respect their wishes and gain their trust, in time they'll let you go out together. Its a matter of trust and honesty. That's my advice, anyway.
2007-02-14 01:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by Viv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the parents permission and you might gain their respect.
If this doesn't work then let them get to know you, meaning you'll need to spend time around them.
PS. Last resort: Sneek some private time. If they find out the worst they can do is ground her. They cannot keep you guys apart forever.
2007-02-14 01:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her father to meet you for a cup of coffee at the local family restaurant. Get to know the father and let him get to know you. If he thinks you respect his daughter and will follow his rules, perhaps he will trust you more.
2007-02-14 01:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by snickersmommie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date then.. just simply approach the parents first by giving them presents and impress them
2007-02-14 01:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkling pearl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Spend time with her with her parents present
2007-02-14 01:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a bonus...
Girls love being naughty and being with the "bad kid." Just play it up and she'll be all over you, parental consent or not.
2007-02-14 01:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When in love, u should expect all kinds of hurdles, maybe parents, maybe rivals. the more the hurdles, the better is the love, there is more satisfaction, there is more value.
2007-02-14 01:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋