Here's my dilemma, to quit or not to quit my job....?

Question

Okay, to get right to the point I hate my job! I am paid pretty decently but I get treated like garbage on a daily basis. I have been on my job for four years. I moved last September further away from where I work so I also have a 25 mile commute to and from work. I have an 18 month old daughter who I miss very dearly every moment that I am away from her. Now, if we tighten our belts a bit, my Husband and I can squeak by on his paycheck provided he works as much overtime as possible. If I do leave my job, I plan on getting another at least part time, and I know that if I do leave my job, I would be a much happier person. I really need some advice from moms or dads who may have found themselves in a similar situation. Thank you.

Answer 1

Plan First, then Jump. Why make it so your husband has to work a lot of overtime, and even then your budget will be tight. Just plan first, find the right part time job, and then give your notice. You will feel better about yourself, and your relationship will not have to suffer financial strain, which in addition to a young child, lack of sleep from working overtime, and the new house, may just be too much. I would take a deep breath, set a plan and stick with it, before you know it you will have found the right match for you and your family.

Answer 2

I was in that situation too. I drove 36 miles one way to work 6 days a week. I hated my job. I worked there for many years. Why I put up with it, I'll never know! Trust me, if you aren't treated well, its not worth the stress to get the money you are paid. I would definitely quit. When I got pg. I worked until I went into Labor. After I had her, I tried to work for a couple of weeks. But in the end we decided that to be at home with the baby was for the best. The joy of being the one to raise her instead of day care workers or baby sitters, makes me feel real good about my decision. If you can give up just a few "luxories" then you can probably make it financially. We stopped eating out, and we buy the store brands on almost all of our groceries, (they are just as good as the name brand) and I use cheaper shampoo, conditioner, etc... We clip coupons and bargin shop. All of these sacrifices are worth it to be at home with your child. Since I quit my job I am much happier. I used to bring home the stress with me, which wasn't good for my marriage, not to mention that it wouldn't have been good for my baby. (if I had stayed) If you do get a PT job don't get a job that is stressful, and don't let it turn into a full time job. Your child needs you to be with her as much as possible.

Answer 3

I'm a stay at home mom, I've often thought about getting a part time job just so we can have some "extras", my hubby's check pays the bills.
If u feel u would be happier staying at home more, then go for it, but talk it over with your husband first and if u do need to get a P.T. Job make sure u have it b/f u quit.
Good Luck

Answer 4

I have been in that situation before. The same as you, my job paid very well, but I was miserable. I quit that job back in November and even though things are tight, I am happier and my kids are much happier as well. Go with what makes you and your family happy. You only get one life, you might as well be happy with it!! That's the way that I looked at it & I think that I made the right choice. Good luck with whatever you choose to do!!

Answer 5

never stay in a situation that you're unhappy in, especially a job. jobs will come and go, just like money. but your family is a lifetime and priceless. seems that you and your husband have worked out the details. if he agrees and you guys have a plan then i say go for it. your daughter is now 18 months, you will soon look up and she'll be 18 years. enjoy this time while you can. where there's a will, there's a way for everything. good luck, you'll be fine.

Answer 6

You don't want to work but you intend to dedicate full time to your study and not that college disapproves students to work. How does million of students who need money for tuitions to pay for colleges if they can't work. Even high school students are allowed to work if they can manage work and study. Frankly, if you decided to quit, just inform your boss exactly your intention. You want to quit so that you can further your study. I don't think your boss will become emotional since there are so many people waiting for you to leave so that they can get your job. Not unless, your boss comes to liking and having you around the work place.

Answer 7

See if you can get a part-time job that is when your husband is home, maybe for a few hours at night, so that you don't have to pay for day care. Look into part-time jobs close by before you quit this one. My husband and I live on his paycheck, but he's also military and I think that's easier. I hope that it works out for you.

Answer 8

I have 2 children 9 yrs old & 9 mnths old, if I had the opportunity to quit my job & work part-time, I would take it in a second. My advise is make sure you will be financially stable before you make your final decision, you don't want to end up with financial problems. GOOD LUCK

Answer 9

I would quit. Life is just too short. ANytime you find yourself unhappy, your heart is telling you that somewhere you have detoured. You only get this life once... follow the path to peace

Answer 10

I am a firm believer you don't quit a job until you are hired somewhere else first. I thinks its finically irresponsibly even more so if you are supporting a family. I would find another job first that pays just as well and then give my two weeks notice. you shouldn't have to be unhappy but you do have to pay bills. just my two cents