well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?what should i do?
2007-02-13 16:36:09 · 17 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
chances are yes she likes you. she probably does not want to reck your friendship. I was the same way and now i am married to that friend.
2007-02-13 16:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by melvaldes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this isn't the answer you want to hear, but you need to hear it. I'm on my way out of the whole high school romance deal and I have learned a lot of things. Take it from someone who's been through it all. First things first. I have no doubt you have things to say to her- say them. Don't write them to her, don't text them to her, SAY them to her. Verbal communication is a MUST. Secondly, please make sure you don't get bent out of shape. It's Valentine's Day and I'm sure you're feeling the pressure. Maybe this is your chance to win her over with some little gift, who knows. But keep you're cool. Who you are as a person isn't dictated by whether or not you have a girlfriend. If you think you can't live without her, you might want to reconsider your definition of "can't." And as for the attention getting, don't let her get your attention. Like I said before, play it cool. Does that mean ignore her? Heavens no! But make sure you don't dote on every word she says or pay attention to every little thing she does. Treat her just like you would any other girl in the room. And when you deal will your feelings and other things like that, make her be upfront with you. If she can't tell you things to your face, like how she feels, then trust me my brother, she won't be worth it in the end. I did it before and she just ended up hurting me. It was a waste of time. My final words to you are- Don't rush love. Love blooms when the season is right.
2007-02-13 16:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by standup149 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each girl is different, the only one who can really answer those questions are her. The fact that she keeps looking at you and tries to get your attention could mean that she likes you, and is just to shy to confront you. Otherwise she would have said no herself instead of having her friend tell you. I could be completely wrong though. The only real way to find out is to get the guts to ask her, or one of her friends (which you would probably feel more comortable doing)
2007-02-13 16:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most liekly, if she told her friends to tell you no, then she doesnt like you. maybe she looks at you in class because she thinks you look funny, if she is shying away from you and not wanting to make contact maybe she feels really bad for rejecting you... which im sure she does, i always felt bad telling the nerd or fat kid, no i dont really want you to call me, ... next time she looks at you and you catch her just say "what?!" like with a half funny but serious tone, and she will tell you, or ignore you more and leave u alone. sorry but i dont think she is just that into you ,
2007-02-13 16:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but if she had her friends tell you no, then she doesn't. She probably just felt really bad and didn't want to let you down herself. The answer to why she tries to get your attention is she probably has low self esteem and since she knows you like her she feels as though she can make herself feel better about herself by getting that positive attention from you.
2007-02-13 16:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably likes you but her friends don't and maybe she cant stand up to them so she will keep liking you in secret . Maybe you should try asking her out when her friends aren't around and see if she says yes. you never know . Good luck
2007-02-13 16:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by silentsiren02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her mean and keep her keen brother. She has asked for it. Who says "I'll think about it"? Its an outrage. Ignore her, if she is keen it will drive her wild. Keep ignoring her until she virtually asks YOU out. Don't be a d i c k, just don't bother with her and be nice if she says something, but don't show any more interest than that for now
2007-02-13 16:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you made her think about it, like she never thought of the two of you going out and when you asked her out you shocked her and she just said no because she was shocked. Now I am not saying she likes you I am just saying she actually doing the thinking about it now. But don't get your hopes up.
2007-02-13 16:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by afropete14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels weird around you but is looking at you to see what you are doing. Girls are weird. Ask her friends why she didn't want to go out with you. Her friends probably know why.
2007-02-13 16:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Melanie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she didn't want to go out with you, but after thinking about it for a while she has realized that it might not seem so bad that you like her, or she's shy!
2007-02-13 16:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by Samantha Marie <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋