I am a shy guy, it's hard for me to meet women because of this. I am afraid if I do meet a woman and we date a few times that she will find out I am a 34 year old virgin. I will tell her the truth if she asks, but if she doesn't I am not going to tell her. I am afraid a woman would dump me for being a virgin. How would you ladies react if you found out the guy you were dating was a virgin? Would you break up with him? Would you stay with him? Would you have sex with him?
2007-02-13 16:35:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a 21 year old virgin guy, I beat I can outlast you because I intend to.
2007-02-13 16:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by krumpmaster terrell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Virginity has nothing to do with you as a person. If you are shy and a virgin and have a great personality and have a kind heart the right woman will not be bothered by the fact that you are a virgin. Be proud of who you are and everything you have to offer a woman.
2007-02-13 16:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by jilando 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think women would dump a man for being a virgin, I think they might be curious about him actually. The problem is how you're going to react afterwards, I think that it might affect your relationship. If you are too hooked they might be scared that is only for the sex, if you react normally they might be afraid that you won't compromise because you want to try now different women, etc.
2007-02-13 16:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by M1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wise decision for not telling, I mean your pretty old guy to not have had sex yet, few will believe you. Personally, I would react by not believing a word you said afterwards unless your a religious/priest or something like that. I think you should try explaining it to anyone you do date who seems serious if you were to tell them, otherwise they gonna think your full of bs and you need to tell them same thing you told us. The reasons I would break up with a person like that would have nothing to do with virginity and yes I would try to have sex with him and if he didn't want to have it I would assume other things that are not complimentary.
2007-02-13 16:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A virgin at the age of 34? Sounds suspicious.
2007-02-13 16:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Sasha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you watched the 40 year old virgin before? You still have time. Besides, women love it when they meet a virgin guy. Just be honest and tell her. Trust me for some it's a turn on. ;)
2007-02-13 16:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by zhuchenxinnickyzhu 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
who cares that your a virgin relationships are not only about sex, shoot there about so much more, if you truly love someone and you feel there the right one then go with what your heart is telling you, i was a virgin until i met my bf we've been together for 2 years and i feel safe with him, we were both virgins and its a great feeling to find someone that feels saving yourself till you truly find that special person
2007-02-13 16:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by beinginlove 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey there's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 34. As long as you whack the bird in your lifetime then you're good. At least you get some kind of thrill. You're just being cautious and that's good becuase ther are many disease out here.
2007-02-13 16:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ericqua 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if a guy wanted to have sex after being a virgin for so long, then yeah! just try not to freak out or act way too nervous!
2007-02-13 16:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha Marie <3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would and have, theres nothing wrong with a virgin, in fact i like it better. I mean atleast you don't have to worry bout herpies and STDs. Plus it means I am not just one on the list
2007-02-13 16:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋