I'm not sure even how to go about this question, I finally made it possible to enjoy being single after thinking I never could (due to a 4yr relationship gone bad) I meet these wonderful guys who want to take me out and sometimes I think it's time to get back to getting into a realationship (im 29) but then when I'm about to make that step of going out with someone, I stop! I think of relationships and I'm like , No way! So I turn them down. I was in love once for 4yrs and again for a month, yes I said a month, its possible, it happened but I ended up hurt by both, is that the reason I can't move forward or do I just enjoy my freedom that much to do whatever I please? Sometimes I think that maybe its just that I don't want a guy to fall for me and then end up hurting them b/c maybe I'm not ready or just don't want to hurt them the way I was hurt....I don't know, it's confusing and it confuses me, and I don't know what I'm supose to do? Any help out there for me?
2007-02-13 16:28:13 · 3 answers · asked by shouldibe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you will know when you are ready to date again and I'm sure you enjoy the freedom you now have, but you can't give up on love just because a couple of guys hurt you. You probably are a little scared of relationships right now because of the past but every guy out there is different.
My girlfriend was about to give up on love. She divorced after being married for 4 years to a guy who didn't show much interest in her, making her feel alone even though she was married. Then another guy took advantage of her after winning her trust. She was hurt again on the dating scene by a couple more guys and almost gave up. But then we met. I'm one of those 'nice guys' that many women have passed up because they were busy chasing the 'bad boys'. But she was willing to give me a chance, realizing that not all guys are the same, and we couldn't be happier. We plan on getting married.
So don't be afraid. It can work out. Just give yourself the time you need to be ready to date again. Then give it a chance. You just might meet your 'nice guy.' And if a guy really loves you, he will let you have the freedom you need when you need it.
2007-02-14 04:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by Coach T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 22 and Im a form of proficient women who would not prefer a guy to maintain happy!!! i like all my pets, birds, python, eco-friendly tree frog, and extra, and that i've got a greenhouse packed with different species of carnivorous plant life, and that i like my activity working at a retirement village! So men are no longer my priority on the 2nd!! while i became 17 I had a bf, I wasn't attracted to him before everything, yet he persisted announcing the enjoyed me for around 2 years!!! He became SOO annoying before everything and that i purely needed him to depart me on my own, yet i ultimately fell for him, and we dated for 3 weeks and then he informed me on facebook that he has stumbled on somebody else!!! NOONE would desire to F*** around with my thoughts like that !!!!!!!!!!! So i'm no longer searching for a guy, and that i do no longer plan too except yet another one sweeps me off my ft, yet from the way i became taken care of, that may no longer elementary to brush me off my ft!!!!
2016-09-29 02:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by lachermeier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like both, but dont let this worry you so much when you
truly feel that you want to get back in the game, then you will
i have felt like that as well but when you ready then you will
make that move.
2007-02-13 16:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋