hi all ive had a big crush on my neighbor for the longest time yes shes married but her husband well lets put it this way theyve needed some major and quite a few simple things done around the house well needless to say he wont do **** except play his video game but ive done everything for her i beleive she knows i like her alot everytime i see her shes the kind of person that just makes you smile well anyway i cant bring myself to go for the next step ive thought about an anonamous letter but i dont know i mean i can tell she loves him to a point but hes always pissing her off i dont know i want her so bad but i dont want to hurt her or change the closeness that we do have sorry about the mispellings but i need some real answers please
2007-02-13 16:27:59 · 6 answers · asked by vamp_19772001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No matter what momentary stress two people have in a relationship, they will have to figure it out. It is wrong to get between a man and woman who have stood before God and exchanged vows. Anyone who does that, no good come to them. Marriage isn't about being happy and romantic all the time. There are times like these that make us appreciate our spouses, when times do get better. Married people who argue and look frustrated, are passionate. If they really don't want to be with each other, they would not even have the energy to be angry. It takes love to even get frustrated!!! Don't even go over ther, and make things complicated. In order for life to mean anything, there has to be some pain. Let's say she does take you up on your offer, she would only be doing it to get back at him. He's the one that she wants--not you. She may use you, play you, and still go back to him when he finally sees that he's taken her for granted. So, think about it, but don't act on it. It's a waste of time. You only want her because she's unattainable. There's way too many pretty single women, for you to get someone that has baggage and is tied up with her marriage.
2007-02-21 14:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by Sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is he might be hot and he might want you but you have to think about it like this, would you really want to be with someone who would cheat on their wife? And you should want to respect their relationship as well as yourself. you sound like a nice reasonable person and if it feels wrong right now( which it must since you are asking on y!a) chances are it is wrong. so though it might be hard, do the right thing. stay friendly but not too friendly and don't cross that line. edit:we went to a hbcu, which one?
2016-05-24 08:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its her choice. Just leave her alone and get on with your life.
2007-02-21 14:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was MY wife, I'd Beat yer friggin' (Expletive deleted)!!!
2007-02-21 14:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by Alesto M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone
2007-02-21 14:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by freeflow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You don't want to get hurt.(by her husband)
Do you?
2007-02-21 11:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋