so this girl tells me that someone has a crush on me and i ask her who it is and she says that she isnt gonna tell me. i tell her that she wouldnt have said anything unless she wanted to tell me who it was and she replies w/ idk who it is and that she doesnt know how she knew that someone had a crush on me. now this is by far one the most confusing things girls do. is she lying to me or what? any suggestions as to how i can find out the truth?
2007-02-13 16:26:08 · 20 answers · asked by jmon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll bet you that the person who has a crush on you is this very girl. She's just trying to see what your reaction is to the idea of a girl liking you. If it is her, she's hoping that you will put two and two together, but of course you won't, because, bless your heart, your a guy. If she's a girl that you might be interested in, then you should take the bait. But if you are not interested in this girl, I would leave it alone and drop the subject with her, otherwise, if you persue w/ questions she's gonna think you're interested.
2007-02-13 16:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up, I've got a plan that will smoke out the truth. Write the following note and deliver it to the girl that spoke to you:
"You told me the other day that someone has a crush on me, but for whatever reason you would not tell me who. I'm really not interested in chasing rumors or playing guessing games. If you are trying to be helpful then you'll have to try a little harder. If not, then I don't appreciate you wasting my time."
Now you've shown her who's boss and she has to either confess the truth or by omission admit that she was wasting your time. Don't let your curiosity give her power over you.
2007-02-13 17:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,she has a crush on you and knows that you are so cool. It is the only trick that she is trying to get closer to you. You are so innocent and you can not catch her act. Now if you like her then you can ask her and be polite. After that you can build your relationship with her. If you do not like her then walk away. Please do not hurt any ones feeling and now you now know the truth and the rest of her story.
2007-02-13 16:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmm, yer I think she's lying about how she doesn't know who it is.
The girl who is telling you someone has a crush on you, is actually the girl who likes you?
Ask her who it is again and when she says she's not going to tell you, tell her you also have a crush on a girl. But say you won't tell her. Tell her she has to tell you who has the crush on you before you tell her who you have a crush on.
2007-02-13 16:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by Bec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
search for suggestion from such as her. this is that straightforward. showing her might want to scare her, and she or he feels like she's uncertain to commence with. It likely doesn't have something to do with you... she's not in any respect been "serious" previously w/ all people. That on my own can make someone experience an entire determination of thoughts that could want to correctly be troublesome to address, even for adults! You did not aspect out how previous you men are, yet i'm figuring youthful little ones? it really is a tricky time for all people to address... new thoughts and emotions. hi, adults manage it too! after all, basically search for suggestion from such as her. See what's occurring w/ her, and be very tender about it. do not commence firing questions at her, and supplies you her time to reply to once you do ask some questions. basically take the time, and search for suggestion from such as her. practice her by potential of talking to her that you appreciate her, and opt to get to understand her more effective powerful (her, and not in any respect basically her body). allow her understand you value her as someone, and if this is meant to pass farther, allow it progression certainly. sturdy success!
2016-10-17 07:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by predmore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll give ya a 75% chance she likes you. Girls like to keep the men guessing, and it could also make herself feel good to be able to somehow hint at her feelings without confessing them. I have done it myself: it's pretty typical. If you want her to tell the truth, you could..
1. tell her YOU like her
2. gain her trust (exchanging secrets helps)
3. flirt until she gives in
Depending on her personality, she might be hard to open up. If she bugs you really bad I might even consider ditching her all together. Hopefully you'll be successful quickly.
Good luck
2007-02-13 16:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by Corinne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably just messing with you.
Forget finding the truth. If you ever get the truth out of any woman, you will deserve a nobel prize.
2007-02-13 16:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is no one have crush on you, unless you're hot then it's the girl who is trying to trick you, that girl is the one who have crush, but only if you're good looking, if not, the no one
2007-02-13 16:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by mikedrazenhero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably her man. Or her best friend. You think you have it bad now, wait until you get older. Free advice: Dave DeAngelo. If I knew then what I know now I'd be in triple digits.
2007-02-13 16:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by indieforcutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably her, or her friend. It usually is.
Girls are just as scared of guys as guys are scared of girls.
We don't always know how to approach them, or initiate a relationship.
Just ignore her.
2007-02-13 16:30:33 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋