My parents are like the most super protective parents ever. im not even allowed to go to sleep overs. and im not allowed to have a boy friend!! im 16!! wth im so mad!! and they don't let me go to the mall with my friends. i really dont know why. my dad just wants me to get A's and but successful and rich like him. well i wanna have fun!! they buy me like millions of expensive stuff and i am thankful. but im 16, why can't i have a little freedom. no one else i know has parents like mine. it really makes me mad. all my friends are like me and we like to have fun, the only problem is that im not allowed!! GRRR!! i just am so pissed off.
2007-02-13 16:24:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I know the feeling, my parents don't let me go to movies with my friends, they don't let me date, they're pretty much making sure all I can do on the weekends is stay home and watch TV. It's like they don't want me to have a life!!! They are foreigners so they act like they understand me but they don't or they would give me a little bit of freedom.It is SO FRUSTRATING!!!! Parents think they are fair but they are not. I think you should try making a dignified request, or coming up with a strong argument, maybe then they will take you seriously.
2007-02-14 15:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I know how you feel, I am an only child and a girl and I live with my dad so I am in like a bubble. I'm finally allowed some freedoms because when he made up stupid rules about me not going to friends houses anymore I did it anyway, i forged bus notes and got other friends parents to pick me up from my house, I'm not saying you should do that, but all I know is that it helped me, hey some of you may call me disrespectful or a brat, but at least I'm happy now. Alot of people say, it's not forever just deal with it, yea it may not be forever, but neither is your childhood and teenage years, when you are finally out of your parents authority, you can't get back those moments that were lost. I don't know if this helped but I hope things turn out OK.
2007-02-15 12:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by hearts_and_swirls_518 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be because of your surroundings which you may not know or see as you are a tender age , anything can happen and for the rest of your life you will be regretted. At your age we feel the same when we are not allowed to go free but this period looks short when we look back after some years. I am a boy ,so free at your age and nearly get spoil. I am somehow successful in my studies with a professional degree but five to six years junior to my colleagues due to freedom at the age of sixteen . So whatever your parents were doing is correct. Don't be sad you'll get double what you missed today. You have Internet , you'll get everything to kill your time. Remember, the outside world is really horrible.
2007-02-13 22:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by turabalukgreen1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you said it... You are 16 and you want freedom. You wanna enjoy. Tell me how responsible you are? You will definitely get freedom if you prove yourself capable enough. It's not about being over protective but it's about considering the immature behaviour of the kid. Show some wisdom and they will let you decide for that particular aspect....
:-)
2007-02-14 06:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have been honest. appreciate and shivalry are consistently required whilst assembly new human beings or maybe being out in public. do no longer communicate on your boss, gf's mom and dad, shoppers, and so on such as you do with you acquaintances. i'm guessing your nonetheless in severe college. (dont take that negatively) you nonetheless would desire to advance some social skills of the thank you to act with human beings. And that's no longer over! i might call them up, or flow over there with flora and make an apology relating to the situation. this might tutor which you have class, appreciate and the potential to handle your issues. they might no longer run to you with open arms in simple terms yet yet they gets over it. it could even substitute right into a relatives comedian tale sometime! :P
2016-12-17 09:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,dont panic over it...they jst want u 2 be their sweet lil daughter....i think u should talk to them n dat u r grown up now n can tk care of urself.....may be they r nt gettin acquainted with ur responsible age now....well,mind it....communication breaks all bridges....hop u understand
2007-02-13 19:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes parent are fair, but as per u r clarification they are not trusted on u. u have to prove them ur not wrong / talk with them about ur fillings. & try that they should belive on u
2007-02-13 20:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by shubha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe they r really very much cared for u and they dont want u to face any difficulty or problems
2007-02-16 05:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by Aasma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know why, when you become a parent in future.
2007-02-15 02:56:38 · answer #9 · answered by yogasun2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it hard but one day you will thank them, and zip it it all for your own good, you will understand them when you have your own kids one day, and i;m 21 and still i;m ot allow to do anything on my own
2007-02-14 02:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋