Say you really really really like this person and you think they're the right person BUT you find out that they have a boyfriend/girlfriend. Would you still make your move and go for it?
2007-02-13 16:23:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i knew this person likes me too, hell yeah!
2007-02-13 16:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, this says something about your character. If you like someone that is fine, but to interfere in a pre-existing relationship for personal gain is selfish and nieve. You can also look at it this way, if you and the someone you like are young chances are that existing relationship won't last long anyway so you may have your chance after it ends. Either way, like I said, this is a test of character, what you chose to do is up to you.
2007-02-14 00:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by jilando 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it's so weird for me to read this question. I was practically in love with a guy that was attached and at one point I felt like I would do anything to be her for a day. I wouldn't have been able to live with myself if I was the reason their relationship ended. Besides, you have to think about his/her happiness, not yours. Please, just walk away from it.
I decided to be good friends with her instead of hurting her. They're happy and I am happy.
2007-02-14 00:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course!!!! Do not give up even if the chances are slim. Go for it coz you never know he or she might be yours 1 day. As long as the person is not married to anyone else, keep on trying.
2007-02-14 00:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by freezing lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that before,but I was young and immature. Knowing what I know now,no,no,no.How would you feel if your boyfriend/girlfriend did that to you? I thought that person was right for me at the time .Looking back now,his girlfriend had every right to hate me.
2007-02-14 00:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by noname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. I have bailed on a relationship because it was a rebound, but the bounce went in the other direction
2007-02-14 00:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he or she abandons their g/b/f then they might abandon you the moment they find something better, and seeing as to how your contemplating causing another person grief, then I suppose he or she could find better.
2007-02-14 00:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by A L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would respect the relationship they were in.
2007-02-14 00:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably do it, even though i would know it is 'wrong' because i sort of did that before.
2007-02-14 00:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya.. sure will.
2007-02-14 00:36:50 · answer #10 · answered by Dune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋