Ok I have sent flowers to a girl I've had a crush on for three years and I finally ask her for a date and we went on 2. Is it two sudden to send her flowers? All I put on the card was happy Valentines day and my name and that was it, want her to know I'm interested will this get her atteion. The funny thing is I havn't got her phone number guess I'm to chicken to ask for it don't know how she feels about me.
2007-02-13 16:21:46 · 19 answers · asked by unknown 3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's great! Life is short....go for what you want.
I wonder how you contacted her for a date if you don't have her phone number. At any rate, next time you talk, just ask her for her number. If she's interested, she won't mind at all. And if she isn't, you have your answer and will know where to go from there. Good luck!!
2007-02-13 16:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smooth move dude. Flowers are nice, but the fact that you put Happy V day, and not spilling your guts is a good benifit. Sometimes spilling your guts makes you seem desperate, and scares girls away. She is probably the envy of some other girls flowers in hand. Not too soon at all. Flowers are a sweet gift most girls will appreciate, especially with sweet thoughts behind them. Going on two dates means she probably has something for you. Get her digits man, cant be too chicken to do that. Get to know her, and let her get to know you. That what relationships are all about. Dont overwhelm her, but dont chicken out about certain things either. If you want to know how she feels about you, you can ask her friends to get the down low, but that could be risky. You want to be on a level playing ground, and not have her controling you because she knows you like her. Good luck man, and hope she will be your valentine.
2007-02-13 16:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by shootdraxxus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight - you've been on two dates and you don't have her phone number? Are you sure they were dates? Other than that being a little funny, I would say flowers are a good idea, although roses might be a little too traditional if you're not sure it's a safe bet yet.
I would go with lilies or something that says "I like you" rather than "I love you."
2007-02-13 16:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by lemnlimelinoleum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not too soon to send flowers and sending them will definately get her attention. Maybe on the card with the flowers you can ask for her phone number or give her yours and when she calls you can get her number from caller ID.
2007-02-13 16:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Just not something too overwhelming. A few roses (not a dozen) or a unique looking bouquet. Women love flowers...you will make a very sweet impression on her!
2007-02-13 16:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by BellyRubz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.
It's never to early to send flowers (as long as the parents don't object)
She probably doesn't have your number either.
When you get together you'll see how well the flowers went over. My guess is she will really appreciate it
2007-02-13 16:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is sweet too. Drop by and ask her phone number. If you had a date and sent flowers but did not call she proably wonders what is up.
2007-02-13 16:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too soon at all. I assume that she likes you or she wouldn't have gone on that 2nd date. Nice simple gift with no expections in a new relationship. Ask for her number. Or give her yours and see if she calls you. Good luck.
2007-02-13 16:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not sudden at all - it is valentine, nothing will be sudden as a valentine's gift, if u love her, send her flowers, she will love it i am sure, u want to see her happy, right? then just do it...
wish all the best in Valentine, my friend
2007-02-13 16:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by chloe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have her phone number, but know where she lives? Stalker much? You're not? Well, doing that sounds like you are to me. Cool your jets tex. Give her the card in person, but flowers this soon is a bad message.
2007-02-13 16:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by indieforcutie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋