Ok my bf left the house about 7 pm to go th H& R block to do his taxes and came back a little after 9 pm. I dont know I might be taking this to serious but that was a little to long to me. He said the lady didnt know what she was doing and it took long. I dont think it should take that long, no matter if somebody is having trouble doing it, and if they dont know I am pretty sure the company wouldn't leave them on there own and not fully train them in the process. But please reply, what do you think actually happened????? Serious answers only please.
If you need more info I am 20 and he is 21, dating for about a year.
2007-02-13 16:21:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a few things at play here:
1. You sound EXTREMELY insecure and unhealthy, as you were obsessing about whether your boyfriend was fooling around just because he went and got his taxes done. I've BEEN there, and used to be JUST like you. DON'T get caught up in that crap. It's not worth it.
2. H and R Block does NOT train their employees well enough. I once took my taxes to H and R block and the guy not only knew LESS than me about taxes, he couldn't even TYPE. They have software on the screen that tells them everything they have to do. They enter it in, and that's it. A monkey can do it. Tell your boyfriend to buy TurboTax next time and save a bunch of money and have it done right.
3. Yes, that sounds about the right amount of time that it would take to get the taxes done.
You need to get more self-esteem sweety. If your boyfriend is cheating or not (he probably IS NOT), who cares! If he does and you find out, then you shouldn't be together in the first place. If you are truly in love and happy, you'll trust each other in a harem.
Good luck!
2007-02-13 16:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by It's Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I think you are reading way into this and overreacting. Sometimes, yes they do leave a person that just started on their own once in a while. And sometimes, the person is just that slow. It's really normal for it to take 2 hrs or so. Either due to how many people were waiting in line, etc. I don't think you should be too worried.
2007-02-14 00:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by fallayna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have my taxes done at H&R block every year. I have seen cases where it does take awhile to prepare them. It does depend as well on how extensive his taxes are. If the location is busy makes alot difference too. Did he have a appointment or just a walk-in? I wouldn't jump his *** too quick on this one. I would give him the benefit of the doubt. Lastly just talk to him and see what he says. Ask the above ?'s and judge for yourself.
2007-02-14 00:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by 3000gthottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are worrying too much. I know it's hard to hear, but trust is key to any relationship if its going to work. Don't look for things that don't exist. By the time your bf drove to H&R and then waited in line and was helped by someone it would definitely take two hours. If anything else happened it was because he stopped by Burger King for a double whopper. Seriously, chill out and stop trying to control your man.
2007-02-14 00:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by jamie kat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are based on trust and once that turns to doubt then the relationship looses strength. If you are doubting him is because probably he has done something similiar before and doesn't sound like it is the first time. If this is True your bf is possibly cheating on you but if it is only the first time this has happened then give him the benefit of the doubt.
2007-02-14 00:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jose P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom does taxes on the computer and it does take a while. His time sounds about right. He had to go there. Get an appointment with somebody. You have to tell them your important information. Then they enter your info off your w2 form. He had to pay them and then they had to give him his money. If you're having trust issues you need to talk to him about it.
2007-02-14 00:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by Cierra C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first off you need to trust him. 2 hrs is nothing, I have had taxes done before and sometimes it does take longer depending on what forms all need be filed.. Don't be so quick to judge him.. You need to ask yourself are you that unsecure in this relationship? Don't jump the gun to assume he is doing something wrong. Trust is something more relationships need to be able to make things work along with communication.
2007-02-14 00:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by Sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taxes can be a pain in the butt, especally if it's someone who may have taken a 5 week course to get that job and would know little to nothing about the fine lines.
Has he ever lied to you?
2007-02-14 00:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by Blanca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it did take him that long. It doesn't sound too suspicious. Seems like u may be a little (alot) insecure. Just chill and let it go if that's the only reason u have for questioning him.
2007-02-14 00:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by Vince R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, taxes take quite a while, give him the benefit of the doubt, but if he gets lost a lot, then I'd think twice. Good Luck!
2007-02-14 00:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋