My ex just put as his msn quote "errr...ok Kel..."
Is Kel most likely a girl's name or a boy's name?
Do you think he's seeing someone now or am I just overreacting? I know it's not my business anymore but just a few weeks ago he called me to see a movie & I went with him. It wasn't a date although he pikced me up, and paid for the movie, I dunno what he wants. BUT I'm assuming he wasn't with anyone then so I dunno maybe he is now? Is this Kel girl his new girlfriend? I'm 21 and he's 26, he was my first boyfriend & first kiss. We dated for a short while then HE ended it sayig he was busy. We had a very innocent relationship, it never went past kissing, cuz he knew I'm saving mysekf for marriage. I guess this new girl must be outting out and making him happy. I feel sad:( When he was dropping me off he just said he wants to see me sometimes when I asked him why he caled me after one year of not seeing each other. Is he seeig someone now & just keeping me as a backup?
2007-02-13 16:10:29 · 4 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most of the time Kel (Kelly) is a girl's name.
He seems to like you but I don't think he's ready for a relationship.
I admire the fact that you want to wait for marriage. Even if this was one of the reasons he left, there is no saying that after sex he would still stick around.
Give it time. The two of you should date each other and others as well.
Sometimes it's right in front of them but they just can't see it.
2007-02-13 16:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you care?
you don't break up with a girl cause you are busy. that's the lamest excuse i have ever heard. more likely when he found out you were serious about not putting out before marriage he walked.
you are absolutely right to wait.
there are a lot of jerks out there who will use your body if you let them. but you should wait for one who will appreciate that you have decided to wait until marriage before you have sex.
when you are young many of the so called good looking guys will be knuckleheads so you may want to examine a man beyond how pretty he is. date as many guys as you want but always have your own transportation at least on the first date. that way if he turns weird you won't get stranded somewhere.
but most importantly, A MAN IS NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN LIFE. do the activities that you enjoy and while there you usually find a friend that enjoys one of the aspects of your life. and then sooner or later you may find the special someone.
2007-02-13 16:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by sodajerk50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just ask him if he has a new girlfriend.
If he invites you out..its your choice if you want to go on ..
it looks like he has moved on..you need to do the same..stop holding on to him...he is not with you anymore..so he isnt doing anything wrong if he has a new girlfriend..maybe you should stop hanging out with him...and stop worry about what he is doing..because it shouldnt be any of your business..and the only way to stop worrying about what he is up to..and if he has a girlfriend or not..is by stop hanging out with him..go out wth other people..and move on.
goodluck
2007-02-13 16:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he your ex so you really should not care, but it sound like he keeping you as back up, and that not cool at al. you need to
move on and let this one go, he not the one for you. he playing
both side and he know that you still have feeling for him so he
will continue to call you . dont go there.
2007-02-13 16:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋