so theres this guy who i really like..we're friends but not like good friends..we're friends enough to have a good convorsation a couple times when we do theatre together (he's not gay) and then we talk on myspace..i want to tell him that i like him but the thing is..i'm overweight..by like alot..not just a couple pounds..im trying to lose weight but its not easy for me. he is really hot but also really nice and sweet. i want to know if i should tell him or not..i mean i dont want him to be like "ew" or feel awkward or anything. what should i do?!
2007-02-13 16:10:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Need not be perfect but seriously lose some of your weight first. Then find a way to tell him. The worst is he says no. At least you know the answer and can move on. Good luck!!
2007-02-13 16:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by Dune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya you just have to tell him. I know it is not easy, it never is. But from the way you explain this guy it doesn't sound like he would let someones weight get in the way of something as important as love. But don't just sit there and kill yourself contemplating telling him, just do it. (it will impress him that you have the guts to)
2007-02-14 00:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by afropete14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If you don't you'll keep thinking back on why you never did. If he does say no, then he probably wasn't good enough for you anyways, especally if he's basing off of your weight. I was heavy set to in school, and I still am, but I have a boyfriend that loves me for who I am and looks beyond my fat.
email me if you wanna talk, okay? ^_^
2007-02-14 00:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by Blanca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how u feel , therefore u will know where u stand. Some men like big women so who knows, since he knows u as a person it may be easier for a relatinship
2007-02-14 00:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah don't tell him your just the fat friend. I really wish you good luck with your weight loss and if he gives you a sign that he likes you then go for it.
2007-02-14 00:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him, the worst he can do is say he doesn't like you that way.....
2007-02-14 00:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by Metallico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can murder him that will solve your problems
2007-02-14 00:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by Trublood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him, if that doesnt work.. blow him.
That WILL work. =)
2007-02-14 00:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by ThePurebred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋