What should I do? Is it true that girls tease you because they like you? If that's true, should I turn around and give them a big kiss in response to their teasing? Or do they actually dislike me (don't want to use the word hate here)? I'm a 19 year old college guy, btw.
2007-02-13 16:08:48 · 13 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not hurtful teasing, just obnoxious. When I was in first grade, one girl would not stop teasing me in a malicious way, so I know that she was doing it to actually hurt me.
2007-02-13 16:17:52 · update #1
Yes it's true, Girls THAT old are just teasing you because they like you.
It's never because they don't.
Yup. You should grab the next one that says something, bend her over backwards and kiss her. Then say,"I love it when you mistreat me!". They would LOVE that and get a big kick out of it. I swear.
I'm dead serious.
2007-02-13 16:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls tease you all the time because they can sense that you are wuss and a punk.
The day you look down and see you have two testicles and a penis will be the day that you liberate yourself. You need to put these girls in "check" by teasing them back or making them feel self-conscious. That way, they will be mildly surprised by your newfound courage.
This new trait may actually cast you in an attractive light.
Life is a big experiment. You simply must take some risks.
They might even
2007-02-13 16:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the type of teasing. If it's "mean-spirited" teasing such as calling you "dork" or "geek" or "loser" then they probably don't like you. If they tease you in a "flirty" way then they like you. You can tell by the way they look at you or they're body language. If they are teasing you in the "mean-spirited" kind of way, I'd go to the principal or someone of authority in your school and tell them what's going on. There's no shame in doing that. That doesn't make you less of a man like many women and men would like you to believe. Noone has the right to tease or harass someone else.
2007-02-13 16:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by jorarmando 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry! It depends... what are the girls saying? Does it sound like a joke? if it does, then they probably like you (go ahead and give them a kiss)! It is a way for a girl to get a guy's attention! But if they are saying hurtful things then I am not sure you want to associate with the girls!!! But most people are not cruel and would not make fun of you! Good Luck!
2007-02-13 16:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by u know u love me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 07:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by predmore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its a way to show affection for sure. but usually you can tell, so dont misread their teasing and take it for liking you when they actually don't. try asking them why they tease you. and btw those girls seem really immature.
2007-02-13 16:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's teasing in good fun and it seems flirty then ok, but other than that i wouldn't put up with it. they'd only tease me for a second before i told them off. be a man and show them youre not afraid to stand up for yourself. good luck.
2007-02-13 16:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how they tease you, if they are your friends, and or you aquatences, then they probably do like you, but if they are just like a couple girls at school you dont really know, then they probably think you are weird and girl friends usually all stick together so if one doesnt like you the rest most likely will act like they dont either, but best of luck ♥
2007-02-13 16:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take the teasing as a compliment..... if they tease about something thank them by saying.......Im glad you like it, thanks for noticing, so thats why you like me?, thats a small price to pay to be w/ such a great guy...... someone that will take time out of thier life to comment "tease" you has some form of attraction to you so just run w/ it!!! and NEVER be weak only confident (not arrogant)
2007-02-13 16:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by declaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they tease you for fun, doesnt mean they hate or like you
2007-02-13 16:11:55 · answer #10 · answered by Pop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋