My ex and I have been over for a little while, but I want him back soooo badly. I'm taken though. I'd give anything to get him back. We've gone out twice now. Idk, I just feel like he's the one for me. (for now anyway) What should I do? Right now we aren't too hott cuz we broke up and everything, but he's losening up. What steps should I take to restore our friendship and get us back together?
2007-02-13 16:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by cdun1111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This from another's guy point of view: Be honest with him. Dump the other guy with out having him back. This will show him how much you do think of him. Talk to him. Talk everything out. Answer everything thing out. If you really think he is the one time will tell when the puppy love wears off.
2007-02-13 16:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by Frost bite 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your situation sounds like an obsession. Not good. Your caring should not be locked into a realtionship with one person like that. You have lots of love to give (and I don't just mean getting into bed) and the more love you give away the more you will have to give. And you will become a more attractive person, a loving person, and whether or not that one guy ever gets back together with you, hey, there are plenty more great guys out there so keep moving on.
If a woman got all obsessed over me like you seem to be over this guy, it would scare me off. I would not want to feel suckered into an obligation to fill somebody's expectations. What makes you think he would want to be the only human being you can love? Possessiveness destroys a lot of human happiness.
2007-02-13 16:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by fra59e 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG girl I'm in the same situation, but I guess it depends who ended it. If he ended it, let it go, and make HIM chase you. If YOU ended it, then ask him to "hangout" somtimes just as friends, cuz there's no pressure, then see the vibes and then decide if you wanna pursue anything further with him. BUT, just hangout and be friends first to see what the vibes are:)
2007-02-13 16:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Hottie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you want him back well you have to play it cool dont act like you ,want him back play hard to get to win him ,over.dont make yourself so available and watch what happens he, will start wonder what going on is he losing you.he will try to get back with you, he will think you are pursuing another.but really you are not.
2007-02-13 16:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by annjilena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you are with someone else. then why would you
want to get back with your ex. and if he was the one for you
then you would not have broken up in the first place. they are
ex for a reason. dont mess up something that you have for
a what if... trust me you might be by your self, why you playing.
2007-02-13 16:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You want to be with him so bad what are you doing with someone else. What is that proving to you ex. You need to rethink all of this.
2007-02-13 16:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can start by dunping the other guy and be straight up withhim. tell him that you want him and aski him exactly waht he wants as well
2007-02-13 16:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by ash08love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him ur feelings for him.Be prepare for his ans.Whatever he says accept it?
2007-02-13 16:09:35 · answer #8 · answered by Blue flower 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've already burned your bridge being with someone else.
2007-02-13 16:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋