im always there to catch people when they are falling and hurting..i treid to help this guy from getting his heart broken by the same girl and he didnt listen he got back with her. i treid so hard. he only needed me when he was crying and had no one alse. Thats is how it is with everyone! he told me he loved me and that i was his dream that i was perfect. but i am taken and didnt know what to do. but now i see him back with her and knowing that he wil lget hurt. and its breaking my heart he wont talk to me or anything and im more worried about talking to him than my own boyfreind i dont wanan feel like this. but it hurts i did all i could do! i cant watch him get hurt again. but i dont wanna see him with her. i dont know what to do. i can think like this i have a boyfreind why am i feeling so hurt. if he gets hurt thats his problem but i treid i told him how she cheated and lied..but im still here trying to make it right when he wont talk to me bc he is hurt! what do i do? please help
2007-02-13 15:59:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm.. seemed that this guy kinda made his mind who he would rather be with and unfortunately its not you. So move on already. I know u really care about this guy still or w/e but the fact is, he'd moved and so should you. Don't dwell on the past.. let the past be the past.
Sooner or ltr and hopefully soon than ltr he will realized that he had made a BIG mistake and he'll regret it, and if he is lucky enough he will still have you to come back to. Some of us just need to learn the hard way and I think he is that person.. sorry to say. But this is known to be true.. case and point- the girl I used to go out with but I'm not gonna get into it.. its another long story which i can write a book about. ;)
All the best!
2007-02-13 16:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by Ichigo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry i cant help, u sound like such a lovely person for caring for your friends so much. I've had a couple of similar experiences. I know how it feels when your there for your friends, they take you when they need you and then ignore your advice afterward. Its not a good feeling at all. Go find a friend who is as kind as you are and talk to them about it, if theyre anything like you theyll understand
2007-02-14 00:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do. You can tell him and tell him and worry all you want but he is going to have to learn for himself. I have been there with my friends. THe more you put her down and tell on her the more he will pull away. YOu are worried because you love him and dont want him hurt. But you need to think about your relationship with your bf. You dont want to rec your relationship because of your friends. Eventually he will realize and tell you, you were right even if its 10 years from now.
2007-02-14 00:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by melvaldes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he hides the pain of not being with you by purposely getting hurt by this girl and making you worry about him.
2007-02-14 00:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mikey b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop letting him use you and concentrate on your own boyfriend.
2007-02-14 00:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your boyfriend to be with him?
2007-02-14 00:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋