he has walked all over me and used me like I was a 3 years old but I keep feeling I still care about him and I am only helping him and what if I made him sad.. if I try I can get him back not sure if that is what he wants
2007-02-13 15:59:30 · 8 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you can do that. You will find it when you've had enough, and that day may never come. It comes easily to some, takes years for others, and yet evades others altogether. Good luck to you.
2007-02-13 16:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by 123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
He sounds abusive and if that's the case he won't change
Nobody should partner up with someone that walks all over them (boy or girl).
Your true love will always be supportive and admire you even when you make mistakes or things don't turn out perfectly.
A good example is a teacher or a parent. They encourage their students or kids they don't put them down.
Look for something better you deserve it.
2007-02-13 16:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is obviously NOT that into you, and you need to realize the huge amount of men out there, why cry over him, unless you two are married and have kids together get away from him, he is an idiot, do you really want to be with an idiot. you only love him or whatever because you are so used to him, and affraid of change, but i garuntee the first guy to smooth talk you, you will have TOTALLY forgot about this other guy, get dressed up, go out on the town with a friend, or just sit at a bar by yourself, trust me, you will get plenty of attention and not even remember his name, best of luck ♥
2007-02-13 16:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you deserve better. You need to get a healthier self worth. You deserve someone who will love you and cant wait to see you, who finds joy in finding ways to make you happy. You deserve to be respected and cherished.
Dont fall into the trap that having someone lousy is still better than having no one at all. Its a bunch of crud
2007-02-13 16:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by MRSCUCCH 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u aren't happy then talk to him about it. It's crazy how long it takes people to do that. Try to find out what's wrong and why he treats u that way. U have to care about ur self enough to try to get what u want. If it's not working after that then u only have one choice.........
2007-02-13 16:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How's it workin' for you? Not too good, huh? So why don't you have any self esteem? Why do you think you deserve a bum instead of a real man? Answer that and maybe you will figure it all out.
2007-02-13 16:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope, u have to find it cha self. when u get tired of it n learn u can stand on ya own, n that u r betta off without him n learn that someone esle will want cha n treat cha betta U will kick him to da curb. and i am sure he aint got the padding to cushion his fall.
2007-02-13 16:06:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU WANT SYMPATHY LOOK IN THE DICTIONARY BETWEEN SHI-T AND SYPHILIS
2007-02-13 16:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by alexander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋