because it really bugs me and because of that i dont like to workout that much
2007-02-13 15:56:04 · 20 answers · asked by cooljoe7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that if he's gonna be so superficial, then you're gone. If he really loves you, your body should not matter. Seriously. I'm a very large woman. I always have been. And my boyfriend treats me great. He's with me for my mind, not my body. Now, THAT'S a man! You deserve better, and you can get it!
2007-02-13 16:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can imagine that it must bug the living daylights out of you. However, if you are ever going to loose weight you need to get to the point where you are doing it for yourself!! Not for anyone else. If your heart is not in it - you will fail.
I know willpower is not an easy thing to have and I know loosing weight is a tough journey - but it really doesn't have to be! If you are serious about wanting to loose weight... mail me and we can chat. I'd love to tell you something that I cannot discuss in such a public forum.
2007-02-13 16:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by Aneska G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has your weight changed that much since you got married? When you get married, it's because you love each other, not because of what you look like. Have you told him how you feel? If you haven't sit him down and tell him it really bothers you. Some people just become obsessed with weight, it's really sad. If he still continues, tell him you want to take a walk with him, and maybe you both could get involved with a healthier lifestyle. Good Luck!
2007-02-13 16:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on for what reason he is doing it. If it is out of the goodness of his heart and he is worried about your health, tell him it is annoying you and discuss another possible solution, Or if it is just because he thinks he can have the power in the relationship, you will need to come up with a way to stop the power struggle!
2007-02-13 16:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by Corrine L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know that you need to do it for yourselve and not him. Tell him it bothers you. I went threw the same thing for 2 years i refused to do anything because my husband was pushing me to work out finally i told him look when you stop bugging me i will do something about it. I needed to do it for myself not him. Good luck and hang in there.
2007-02-13 16:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume that u have gained weight since meeting him. Of course their are certain expectations that men and women have when they get married. They expect that they are "getting what they have paid for" and typically people should respect their partner enough to recognize and attempt to meet that. However, physical appearance changes and if you are happy with ur self, then u should just talk to him about it.
2007-02-13 16:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Either Loose weight... by sticking to a diet plan prescribed by a neutritionist..or..... a little excercises.... staying low of Fatty and junk food.
2. Make him gain weight... ;)...{more than yours... so that you can bug him}
a friendly suggestion... control your weight cuz this lead to other various health problem...
Best of Luck...
2007-02-13 16:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it, tell him you don't like it and if he persists, start bugging him about something that isn't perfect about him, maybe the size of his manhood or something. Give him a taste of his own medicine.
2007-02-13 16:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start picking on him, talk about his small wang,, say "well you know i will be able to lose this weight, but will your penis ever get bigger? no, i dont think so" or poke at his gut, reverse it all. make him look like the ugly ***, give it to him straight, there is NO reason he should be saying those things to you, and is a **** head if he really means it...
2007-02-13 16:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that his badgering is having the opposite effect of ticking you off and now you don't want to do any thing about your weight. He needs to be supporting you not undermining your self esteem. He should love you regardless of your weight!!!!
2007-02-13 16:00:26 · answer #10 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋