How should I deal with the fact that my boyfriend's babymama tells him she still loves him...?

Question

and can't get over him? We've been together 8 months and are seriously talking marriage but she is constantly interfering. I know she'll always be a part of his life but she uses his son as a pawn and when she doesn't get her way she witholds him. Plus she is always calling and texting him nonstop with lovey-dovey bullsh*t. How to handle this?

Answer 1

Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.

You catch more bees with honey than vinegar.

The most effective way, would be to start a friendship with her, and hopefully her connection to you will make her feel too guilty to make moves on your man.

Or, just talk with him about it. You'll get used to it, but never happy with it. Sorry...you're probably stuck with this behavior.

Answer 2

You sound like you're trying not to listen to your heart. He still has sex with her and guess what it works out well because you're not around to yell at him. That child is very confused because he/she sees there father every two weeks. You know that mommy and daddy are together in front of the child. Why would you marry this man? He's going to marry you and continue to cheat right in front of your face. He's not playing house because he already has a family in one town and you in another. He's living two separate lives and it's working out because you will never run into her because she is out of town. They planned that my dear. She knows all about you and she is fine with the fact that he goes back home to you. He pays her bills and takes care of his child and gets to be intimate with her every two weeks. Why would you allow a man to treat you in such a manner? Here's a question why are you allowing him to go to her house on his own? Why does he have to drive out of town to see his child? Why can't he pick his child up and drive back to the house so you could bond with the child since it is only 1 yrs old. Don't marry him he's playing you. This guy does not use protection with her hence she had a baby with him. You're letting this man play with your life.