So we broke up almost 3 months ago. We only dated for 2months, but we were best friends for well over a year. We did the friends with benefits thing on and off. He didn't want a relationship. Seems like when I would start to pull away he would always change his mind and decide he wanted me. He came to me telling me how much he cared and wanted me after 2months of me making no effort to hang out with him. Well 2 months later
we broke up when we got into our first fight. I got mad and don't express my emotions very well (which he knew from previous experience with me and from us talking about it). Well he decided that it was too much of a turn off for him and dumped me. I know that he is selfish, arrogant, immature (he now claims that we were dating for the entire year we were friends) and judgemental. Looking back he didn't do anything that was for us or me, but I still miss the person I thought he was. I think about him all the time and don't know what to do to get over it/him....
2007-02-13 15:40:46 · 7 answers · asked by k w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't keep being mentally hooked on to this guy.you can tell he's no good to have a relation with. the best way to get over him is- think logically to yourself about how he really doesn't have emotions for you. may be hots for you but no care for you and why the hell would you want such a guy when better is gonna come along. you rather be alone than with a guy like him.
First thing to do is.. don't try to still be friends -at least not for now. you gotta break all form of contact- even if he appears to be suddenly changed or sweet(nothing doing). then you gotta think about how selfish he was. that's such a turn off. there will be a boy who will pursue you, chase you,and want you for the exact person you are. give that guy a chance by shutting doors on this obnoxious one .get busy with your life- work out, dress well eat healthy and be your wonderful self-cheers-
2007-02-13 15:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here !I feel ya! Im so sad rightknow,I wish I would of never met my ex We were in love at one point it was so beautiful then drugs got in the way and we boh changed!he started phisicly abusing me constantly and i would not let him go.All of a sudden he took of with an other girl to arizona and left me all alone with out any explansations, All I need is his honesty ,I need closure!but he wont even do that...I havent heard from him since two weeks ago .I am trying to move on but it is so hard.I am listening to the Art Laboe show on 92.3 the oldies station over here in LA.You are not alone sweetie ok?I hope you find pease and happy ness as well as I hopre that for my self.God bless you, Deddications to you even if I dont Know you."Dont let no one get you down"and "Smile now cry later"(My na,me is essy by the way ) IM 26 and I Am a graphic dessighner student.Here is my Email adress just in case you would like some one to share your pain with.(You dont have too OK?so dont freak out on me)Good luck baby girl.{esmeralda_90304@hotmail.com}
2007-02-13 15:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No point looking back. Move on.. Look forward. If you are always occupied with him in your thoughts, find something to occupy yourself. A person with big ego will not bring the relationship further if you continue to stick with him.
2007-02-13 15:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by cxj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it one day at a time,hun. ..and in the mean time,try focusing on yourself and the areas that you think you need to grow in (such as expressing your emotions).
That's not a put down.....We all have areas we need to grow in. That just happens to be one of yours.
Also..you sound young...Don't try to accomplish to much to fast....You have plenty of time to get into a meaningful relationship........
Good Luck!! (Hope that helped a little)
2007-02-13 15:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just explained all the reasons why he needs to be out of your life, reread what you told us a few times. Good luck
2007-02-13 15:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to pick up a new cd and listen to it over and over andover until you really learn the lyrics and writting and youll be over them thats what i do. try james blunt but listen to it over and over and over
2007-02-13 15:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by brittany K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a loser....just keep yourself busy and do something worthwhile.
Goodluck
2007-02-13 15:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by Faith's_Fate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋