I am dating a guy now who is so small he can only do certain positions. I dont get much sexual pleasure from him. The only way I can enjoy him sometimes is to use his thing like as if it were a tongue. I feel bad to embarass him and I dont want to make him feel bad but I kind of miss having sex the way I'm used to it. If anyone has been in this situation give me some advice.
2007-02-13 15:22:46 · 11 answers · asked by mariabianchi 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
If he's any shorter than 2.5" then there is a problem. Perhaps an injury or his growth was stunted horribly durring purberty, or maybe it's just his genetics.
The first 1-3" in a woman are the most sensitive to stimulation so there should be no problem. Unless your G-spot relocated to 4 inches higher than it should be.
Cosmopolitan has a Kama Sutra book and it has a position to try if your guy is small. It's called The Sexual Seasaw. And it says under "Why it Works", it narrows your canal. It's a bit of an awkward looking position though. But if you're flexible it's worth a shot. To leave someone because they have a small penis is stupid, and honestly if you feel that way then YOU aren't worth his time. If you are mature enough you'll know that sex isn't everything in a relationship. Sure it's good, but would it kill you if he isn't everything you want? Perhaps there are flaws in you that he doesn't like and would leave you for. It's something to think about...
2007-02-14 03:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by H.L.A. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on top girl. He'll like it and most women like that position anyway. If not get some toys. Oh and using his thing as a dildo or a tongue isnt so bad as long as it gets u off but instead of u moving it ask him to do it. It will feel better if he does the motions because it will be him giving you satisfaction and not just u using his body part to give urself satisfaction. belive me I have to do it with my b/f sometimes...or a lot.
2007-02-13 23:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did and I really liked him but he just couldn't satisfy me in the way I wanted, I finally went else-where even though I cared for the "small" man. It ended up being a mess, we all got hurt. All I know is-to me size did matter. Good luck.
2007-02-13 15:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by margiefaye4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im still young, ive dated a guy a year younger than me, went on a couple of dates with a guy 2 years younger, and kissed a guy once that was 4 years younger. thats it though.
2016-05-24 08:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe get him using his tongue? Hey, V-Day is tomorrow, take him on a date to an "adult" store, and buy some toys!
2007-02-13 15:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by msstormie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I left him as soon as I found out. I'm not proud of it but I did.
2007-02-13 15:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by CapeCodGram 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg yes once, can u say 1/2 hard
2007-02-13 15:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by anangeloveryou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
2007-02-13 15:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you like toys , buy a good one and make him use it on you
2007-02-13 19:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't make him feel bad, just make an excuse and leave him.
Trust me, you can't live with it...( I tried and couldn't do it...)
I just told my ex that I couldn't deal with his weight. (yes he was overweight, but that wasn't the problem)...so make the excuse plausable...
2007-02-13 15:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋