I was going out with a guy for about 3 weeks and then he told me he's not ready! I am still crushed about him and i realy want to be with him. The other day the bus driver was hitting on me and i was flirting and hitting on him as well. He asked for me to go on the bus again just to see him. He is 40 years old and i am 20. I find him sexy and would go out with him no prob. Do you think i am over the 1st guy and just moving on? what is it ?
2007-02-13 15:14:31 · 11 answers · asked by tiffers 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The bus driver told me he is divorced!
2007-02-13 15:41:43 · update #1
i dont think you should go out with the new guy. i think you just feel frustrated with the 1st guy that you feel like you would go out w/ any new guy who hit backs on you. think about it...
2007-02-13 15:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, NO, NO! you are playing with fire and you are going to get burn. Why in the world would you want to go with a man twice your age other then the fact he cute men that age are not cute their handsome, see you are not ready for a real mature relationship. You don't even know if you are over the boyfriend of only three weeks wow that says a lot about you. You are still very immature. Stick to guys your age. A 40 yrs old man only want a young thing as a show piece.
2007-02-13 15:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it!! Yes, you still may have feelings for guy #1, but I think the best way for you to get over one guy is to replace them with another!! Before you know it guy #1 will be a distant memory. I say give the 40 year old bus driver a chance, you only live once, he could be your soul-mate!!!!
2007-02-13 15:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Knowitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you are probably not over the first guy! You are trying to put that guy in his place to not be alone, or to have the feeling that he wants to be with you when the other guy does not. Don't jump into another relationship-Especially with a guy that is old enough to be your father! You don't need nobody telling you what to do. Good Luck-
2007-02-13 15:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself. You are experiencing infactuation with the 40 year old. You probably not over the first guy. You don't wanna end up like my step mom and my dad.
Step moms age.24
Dads age. 45
2007-02-13 15:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kristopher A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well......i read "bus driver and flirting" and was thinking u were in high school.....and when u said he was 40 i was like isnt that kinda wrong....but then i read that ur 20 and i was like ok.....but the fuzzin bus driver is twice ur age.....aint that kinda wrong?
2007-02-13 15:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by (((uniquely.me))) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're free to move on. But that Driver might
have someone already.
2007-02-13 15:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not flirt with a married man. you gain nothing and lost something ouut of it. at his age of 40, do not believe that he is still single. he is a kind of a playboy man
2007-02-13 15:21:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take a break from the guys for a while...no one says you have to be with someone...
2007-02-13 15:18:37 · answer #9 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to sit down and have a heart to heart with YOU....... the answer is IN you, not out here in space....... God bless
2007-02-13 15:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋