I'm 20 and a half, I've been out with one girl (last month) who ended up being way too girly for me (hated sports and was very superficial), plus she was not that into me after we talked for a couple weeks. Blah blah blah yada yada yada, I've never had a kiss....
Too late? When was yours? Would a girl be put off by this?
2007-02-13 15:13:54 · 37 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not too late. but don't wear a sign saying "Never Been Kissed"
2007-02-13 15:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, for some people it just doesn't happen very fast and that's totally fine. My first was when I was 13 and I didn't have my first makeout session (my second kiss) until I was 16 (the age I am now) in December. It's not about timing. It happens when you least expect it, and I know everyone says that, but it really does. Just let it come naturally to you. There's a girl out there waiting for you. Just go and take the first move, I'm sure a girl won't mind. Good luck! :-)
And by the way, I love when a guy is innocent, I'd much rather have a guy that hasn't done much than a manwhore. So you're fine. I'm pretty sure any classy girl would take you ;-)
2007-02-13 15:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not too old. Things happen at different times for different people. I was about your age before I had my first kiss as well. I don't think a girl would be put off by it at all. I think there are a lot of women who would think its pretty cool to be the first because the first is remembered forever. When it happens, it will be that much more special for you and for her because you waited. Don't worry. It will happen in the right time with the right girl.
2007-02-13 15:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by Marijane K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never to late for nothing, and I think mostly everybody its very turn on with the idea that the other person hasnt either been kiss, is still a virgin or something like that. I hope you find someone special that gives you, your 1st kiss, cause its one u will always remember. Good luck
2007-02-13 15:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by manny_1128 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax!! You don't want to kiss a girl unless you want to date her for a little whiile-and of course, get to know her a little bit first. It does hlep to date someone who shares the same kind of interests as you. You don't just want to kiss just anyone. You are not too old to not have been kissed yet. Heck, there are a couple of men I have come across that one was 58(?) before he got married-first time, and another guy who was 63-first time getting married. Kissing someone means you care about them-in a special way. I wish you the best. Take care.
2007-02-13 15:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the women said "your never too old for anything".
I mean, If I found out a guy never been kissed, i would find it attractive due to the fact he got virgin lips LOL. But I mean some girls are stingy. So not all girls would think the same.
I mean I gotten my first kiss when I was 11 with my old crush neighbor who waas the same age of me.
2007-02-13 15:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by ashCHEEKS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to go out on a limb here and say you probably act a lot younger than you are. Girls probably don't think you are mature enough to be kissed.
I just based that off of the fact that you said "20 and a half"...I haven't said that since I was 6 and a half
2007-02-13 15:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's lot many things in life to be worried about. Do not allow "not kissing" syndrome to affect your life. When the time will come your would get it. Cheer up !!!
Myself kissed a girl (real kiss) at the age of 28 after my marriage. It has never affected me any bad!!
2007-02-13 15:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say you will never have a kiss. I got my first kiss when I was around 15. If you find the right girl she will not be put off at all.
2007-02-13 15:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by adnama_n_werd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a late bloomer. Don't let girls your age know you are inexperienced. They won't know the difference, because they are not that experienced either. You are not supposed to "be kissed" you are supposed to "kiss her." If you understand the difference between the two you will have a better chance of kissing a girl.
2007-02-13 15:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋