MY ex texted me and asked me to hang out like old times the thing is she betrayed me and grabed my heart and flushed it down the toielt and we still talked for a couple months and then i stoped talking to her and now a couple months later she just asks me to come hang out and then she just stopped in the middle of the convo and never said anything to me. I dont know wheather i should even let her in but we were best friends for severel years so i dont know what i should do.
2007-02-13 15:09:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude stay away
2007-02-13 15:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too immature to have a boyfriend. When you mess with something that is good for you to do what you did...then he needs someone that really will care for him and not think of themselves like you did. You did not have his best interest at heart...and you try to rationalize things away. You do not face responsibility for what you did and he knows that. There are no excuses for you..you did what you wanted to do because you WANTED TO DO IT...and no thought of him. That is childish and he knows it. It is irresponsible and HE KNOWS THAT TOO! When you are grown up you accept responsiblity for your actions and stop making excuses....and denying the damage in ALL areas that your decisions made. Including hurting HIM and then expecting him to forgive you and move on until you see something else you want. You got what you deserve...leave the guy alone. The fact that you don't want sacracstic and responsible answers is that you want your feelings smoothed over so you feel good about yourself....it isn't going to happen. You cannot learn from any mistake until you KNOW what they are and the results of them without rationalizing them to death. You want what makes YOU feel better...NOT HIM...that says a lot right there!
2016-05-24 08:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be trying to put the moves on you, maybe she realized that she made a mistake. Then again, you did say that you lost touch and she recently asked you to hang out with you. She may just want to ketch up with you and stay friends.
2007-02-13 15:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by spirit22poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are dealing with a fickle female you would best be served by not letting them in to hurt you again since they evidently are confused about things, but you remember one thing a true friend does not just drop things they give reasons and try to lessen the pain
2007-02-13 15:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by billc4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No kiddo. dont do it because its kinda like fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Just let it go. If you go and hang out with her your going to remember what its like to be like how you used to be. your not making it fair for yourself. shes just crawling back to you and you shouldnt let her. TRUST ME i made the same exact mistake and they did the same thing to me again and i went crazy. i was so hurt and obsessed because i felt like i was betrayed. Its not worth it.
2007-02-13 15:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by brittany K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋