Hi..this is soo bad! I really dig this guy who is a friend of a very close pal of mine..I've been out with him a couple of times and had a lot of fun, but he's never called back or asked me out specifically again, but is very friendly whenever we all friends meet up.. it s damn frustrating and I get all worked up and feel egoistic that how can he not like me as much as i do?
I want to do something with him on Valentines but don t want him to feel like I m desperate and am pushing him a lot!
On the other hand, I recently met this other guy thru a common friend and he asked me out, we had a nice time but I did not feel it, but he s really interested and callsw me to keep meeting up again! he wants to have a date on V day with me and I want to have a V date with the first guy'!!
This is making me feel like a seesaw, my self esteem is low because of guy 1 and then gets igh because of guy 2!! what can i do to right things?
2007-02-13 15:00:45 · 10 answers · asked by ssff 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pick one
2007-02-13 15:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention guy 1 asking you our for Valentine's day. Go out with the nice guy who asked you. Have a good time. Every date doesn't have to be a relationship. Maybe guy #1 would like you more if you seemed a little bit more unavailable.
2007-02-13 23:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your situation with the first guy is similar to the situation with the second guy..... except in reverse. He might not feel any connection. Guys usually call back if they're really interested.... unless they're shy.
Why don't you ask him for the date you want on Valentine's Day? If he rejects you... at least you will know for sure. Besides, some guys like assertive girls. :)
2007-02-13 23:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lead the number 2 guy on. Just tell him that you want to be friends. Talk to Guy 1 and ask him if he wants to be more than friends. If not you will know where you stand and can move on. I know advise is easy but hard to take.
2007-02-13 23:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by chad R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My only advice for you is to go with your gut...If the second guy didn't get your attention in that way the first time there's a reason for it. You can't force yourself to like someone. Take a risk and ask the first guy, that way you can't ask yourself what would have happened if you did Good luck!
2007-02-13 23:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by michelle s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should take a break from the dating game. Step back, think things through, and then make your decision.
Have fun with friends, family, and do the things you love.
2007-02-13 23:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this is a tough decision. Tell him you are not interested to guy2. but if you like him and makes you feel good, go! Guy1 might like you but ask him first if he wants to go out. "Love is like a coin.Decisions have 2 sides positive and negative. Good guy and bad guy."
2007-02-13 23:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by Kristopher A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget guy 1...... he tried it and it was NOT for him, or should I say, he is NOT into you.... that is just life and what dating is for, to find out who is or is not right for us.... not that you are bad or anything, he just did not feel what you did, nothing wrong with that.... and by NOT sending out signals and just hanging out he is clearly telling you, sorry, no go !!!!! as for guy #2, hang with him a few times and give it a chance..... if ya just do NOT feel it, then move on..... like I said, that is what dating is... God bless
2007-02-13 23:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell the guy you like more and tell the other guy that you are busy and you forgot you told your mom you will help her
2007-02-13 23:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by AnAlUp3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest
2007-02-13 23:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋