See I know this guy and I stared liking him because I was sure he liked me, he tlaked to me all the time, flirted, touched my arm,stared at me from across the room. Then he started IMing me alot and I was so excited casue I really thought he liked me. But he's kinda backed off now and i'm worried that because I'm shy he didn't realize that I like him back and now i'm scared I've lost him what should I do?
2007-02-13 14:48:55 · 13 answers · asked by Bob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I CAN'T tell him i'm too scared of what will happen
2007-02-13 14:54:40 · update #1
Why don't you make an effort? You don't have to ask him out or anything, but why not IM him or flirt with him a little. What's the worst that could happen?
Good luck!
2007-02-13 14:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by LUIS J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him back off girl, don't force him into any thing. Let sleeping dogs lie. You will be quite alright.
The right time will come, be patient, Enjoy your young life, .Get excited about your school work . Look toward a higher standard of living. Set a Five year goal. Pursue your passion. Maybe you have a gift god gave you singing , modeling maybe you are creative be a
fashion designer, interior decorator. Be the best you can be and when a man do come along he will only enhance your life because
you have already establish a standard for you self.
Life is Beautiful.
2007-02-13 15:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, ask him if he really likes you. There's got to be a reason that he hasn't been as flirty. If you have been flirty, maybe he's afraid of something. Maybe you should try talking to him more.... or ask if he's ok. Sometimes guys change just because. It may not be anything, but to be sure ask him what's up and if he likes you
2007-02-13 15:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by spirit22poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him who he likes and say unwell inform you who i like and then basically say i such as you! and basically see have been it is going from there and if it does not paintings out then i'm incredibly sorry approximately this yet provide it a shot and spot have been it leads you.
2016-10-02 02:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him you are interested, it definently sounds like he was. I think if he knew you were interested he'd like to date you. Take a risk (I'm a shy girl too so I understand).
2007-02-13 14:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by cotton~candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, some guys will only go so far until they get a positive reaction or not.
2007-02-13 14:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the exact same problem. so im stuck in the same boat as you. all i can say is, well at least the past was nice.
2007-02-13 15:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, dont make the same mistake i did. this situation (well, very similar) is happening to me right now, and i have let him slip because i neva told him how i felt. PLEASE TELL HIM, PLEASE, because u will lose him. it sounds like ur at the beginning of losing him, so dont let him, tell him ur feelings
2007-02-13 14:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy u like might think u dont like him...becos he did everything he could to signal u he likes you...but i guess u didnt becos ur shy. So just tell him...he will like that a lot and who noes wat will happen...but TELL HIM! otherwise...he will think u dont like him and you will lose him!
2007-02-13 14:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by Marty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so 'cold' to him, show your true heart to him
just be brave to love, and be brave to get hurt
2007-02-13 14:55:37 · answer #10 · answered by chloe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋