This guy calls a lot and we talk for hours and when he comes over we make out. He has told me that he likes me a whole lot but doesn't have time for a serous gf so but he always tells me I'm cute and that when the other girls try to give him there number he tells them he don't have time for anyone right now. So please let me know what I should do I really like this guy . We have been hanging out since before halloween.
2007-02-13 14:13:52 · 14 answers · asked by Ronnet P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if he makes out w/ u he has to like u!!! He probbaly just doesnt want the word t oget out that u r his gf. My bf was the same way, but after like a week he told every1!! I promise u, he likes u as a gf. Ask your self this.. y WOULD HE BE MAKING OUT W? U IF HE DIDNT LIKE U?? he is probably scared thatt his buds will rag him, too. So, just ask him to be a bf in secret! that would make every1 happy cuz only he and u would kno!! if that doesnt work,, he is just using u to make out, or he is cheating. i kno that is probably something u dont want 2 hear, but hav 2 keep in ur mind, it may be true!!
2007-02-13 14:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by browneyedgrl987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just wanted to extend my support and hope for u....I am in a similar situation with a guy I love, and it has been torturous. He says he is not ready, but says he has feelings. Then he stays in touch everyday, then he says he doesn't wanna lead me on. How confusing this is to me! I hv been going crazy, and hv been in hurt and agony since a year. I am trying to take it one day at a time. It is a very hurting stage to be in. I hope everything works out well for u. In the end it is really is up to what u wanna do, how much risk u r willing to take, and what kinda guy he is. Dont think about love and just ask yourself if he is a worthy guy who can be a mature partner. Ask urself that. If he is a player, or someone u can't totally trust, then it's not worth waiting for such a guy.
My best advise is to not pressure him. I noticed that the more I pressured, the more I got emotional, the worse it became with such guys.
It's a tricky situation. May everything be resolved soon.
Know what u r getting into. Maybe there are no guarnatees with him. Are u willing to take a risk with ur heart, with him?
2007-02-13 14:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all quit being a slut and quit making out with him. How cheap he must think you are! No wonder he "doesn't have time" for a girlfriend. He gets all his fun and doesn't have any of the commitment issues. He probably tells all the girls he is making out with that he doesn't have time for anything serious. That way he gets to have you all.
Grow up and act like the young adult you are supposed to be! Quit being so sleazy and easy! Then maybe he will take notice of you as more than a play thing. If not, then get used to being used.
2007-02-13 14:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know why most relationships don't last?
It's because you do not allow yourselves to become friends first.
Try being friends for starters. Do not jump into a Love relationship for at least a year or two. Enjoy each others company freely without having the pressure of a Love commitment which lead into regret sometimes.
During this time you would learn so much about each other. you would gain a mutual respect for each other and believe me that kind of friendship is priceless because it would eventually grow into a Love relationship that would last for many years to come.
Friends First.
2007-02-13 14:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how it is, if you truly like him and he is spending time with you already and making out then it has gotta be more serious than that. Otherwise, he is stringing you along and could end up hurting you through being non commital.
Either way, I hope you stay happy. One day at a time.
2007-02-13 14:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by caz_v8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's easy if u r so sure u like him a lot, then what's the problem? afraid of getting hurt one day or he suddenly disappeared one day?
don't think about too much, just enjoy the time being with him & do enjoy the great feelings in love, we never know what going to happen tomorrow, so leave all the problems to 'tomorrows'.
wish u a very happy valentines day, my friend
2007-02-13 14:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by chloe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decelerate Hun you opt for to end freaking out verify with him on my own tell him the way you sense in case your worry-free with him he will be worry-free with you! comprehend? you opt for to in trouble-free words no longer push him to communicate if he would not opt for to communicate purely tell him the way you sense and the way it upsets you that he's ignoring you and also you fairly do not opt for lose his friendship! ok Hun? i'm a Junior intense college and im no longer a guy specialist yet i did a similar element even as i become in center college i overwhelmed on my BGF (perfect guy chum) and that i have wide-spread him in view that Pre-ok and that i concept i had ruined it yet yet i purely did what i'm telling you at present. and we've positioned it in the back of us!! do not worry Hun i trust that you could make it precise solid success!!!!!!
2016-11-27 21:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want something serious...if he says he doesnt and insists on making out with you and such...then he is probably just using you.... good luck though
2007-02-13 14:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by garrwing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask like Winnie Cooper to Kevin Arnold on The Wonder Years......Do you like me like me..... or just like me......lol Good Luck!
2007-02-13 14:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask him that just tell him you would like to become serious and then you will know
2007-02-13 14:16:31 · answer #10 · answered by undercovernudist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋