When I was younger I used to wear baggy clothes. I would play sports and I was not afraid to get dirty. I now wear more feminine clothes, but I still don't wear make up or any jewerly. Once in a while I wear skirts, tight pants, and other girls stuff. I'm more comfortable with myself doing girls stuff. But at the same time I still do sports and Im not afraid getting dirty or doing guy stuff.
When I play sports with guys I tend to be aggressive. I'm not afraid to push, run, or getting sweaty like some girls. When I do this guys kind of freak out, sense I'm mostly the only girl that does something. Am I still a tomboy?
2007-02-13 14:08:59 · 5 answers · asked by Questions 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah pretty much. I was a tomboyish child, and I still find it incredibly difficult to befriend feminine ditzy females. The only way I've managed to find femininity interesting is to look at it as art. I gave up art classes because they won't fit in my schedule next to choir and so on and I was a somewhat cute drawer, never anything professional though. So now I find myself applying my art interests to say... picking out candelabras at Pier one, drawing the perfect eyeliner line under my eyes and making myself into a work of art, noticing vibrant and entertaining clothing choices and so on. (I'm told I don't match though, orange bag (I only have purses that hold books), purple shirt, jeans, gold ballet flats that tie, green scarf, long blue coat) I also played a lot of sports, but I gave up... because even though I'm tall and every so often I'm decent, it's too much work for something I'm not good at.
So umm yes, femininity should be something mixed casually into your life. You do sound tomboyish, but just find a cuter bag to carry your stuff in, buy crazy vibrant things that pop out (fashionwise as long as something fits you somewhat tightly you're fine), practice wearing makeup, and as for hair, too much trouble to style it, just comb and nothing more fancy than a pony tail. Paint your nails a fun color one day while watching t.v. Athletic girls can still be pretty and feminine, and in some ways they're the prettiest and most feminine. It's disgusting almost, people who wear expensive running stuff for sports.
2007-02-13 14:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, yes, and yes. Even if you try to be more 'girly' you'll always go back to being a tomboy because you feel comfortable doing 'guy stuff' . I'm the say way, i had to break down and buy pink shirts to wear everyonce in awhile to shut my boyfriend up! Just be you!
2007-02-13 14:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by Brandi N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but its not a bad thing at all. the guys who are freaking out when you become aggressive during sports cant handle you and are more of a girl then you are. Once they grow up and understand what they are looking at, they will be all over you.
2007-02-13 14:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by 258Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really think you are.. you're not a girly girl.. but you're not completely a tomboy either.. you get the best of both worlds
2007-02-13 14:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats basically how i act, so i'd say yea you're still a tomboy.
2007-02-13 14:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋