Would you let people know that you have postpartum depression? And how?
2007-02-13 14:08:22 · 8 answers · asked by redmouse 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
It is very hard to talk about that subject, I know. But you will need to tell someone. After a while without being treated you will only get worse. My husband finally made me get help when I was crying one day, again and he asked what was wrong, when i told him all i can think about is killing myself, i realized this is something i can't fight on my own. Now after just even going to the family doc, talking about it and getting medication to help me control it my life is back on track. Answer is you HAVE TO tell someone for your safety and your child's. Good luck and take care.
2007-02-13 14:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!!!!! Tell anyone!!!!!! Tell your family and your doctor especially. DO NOT feel like you are all alone with it because you are not. But if you don't talk to someone about it, it could get worse and women who are depressed, especially new mothers, things happen that you normally wouldn't let or want to happen. So please for you and your baby's sake, go talk to your doctor and your family they can and will help you through it. All you need to do is tell them you are feeling depressed and would like to talk about it. When you tell your doctor, ask for support groups in your area. Another good place to look for support systems is in your local church, ask them if they have a Mother's Of Preschooler's group there. And if so, who is the coordinator of that particular group and get in contact with them. You do not need to have a preschool age child to join the group. You can join the group even if you are just pregnant. But MOPS is a very helpful support group for new moms and even seasoned moms. So there's a few options for you to look into but do please go talk to your doctor and your family, it is vitally important to you and that precious new baby. My best wishes to you and big hugs! You'll be alright, remember you're not alone in this, many moms do suffer from post partum depression.
2007-02-13 14:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by masmalan2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's best for those close to you know so they can help you, if they do not know what's wrong they can't help. I'd not shout it to the world, but people like your hubby, mother and or mother in law, boss--if you're needing time off work-- this is not something to be taken lightly.
2007-02-13 14:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your doctor about it I went through it my daughter is almost 9 month old It gets better everyday don't be afraid to ask for help your only hurting yourself and your baby
2007-02-13 14:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by mary_jane131 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!! There is nothing to be ashamed of, it happens. Seek help immediately, don't worry about what people think you'll be a better mother for seeking help.
2007-02-13 14:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question, I am really not sure, I have been lucky enough not to suffer from post-partum. But don't be ashamed, talk to your Dr. if you are suffering.
2007-02-13 14:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its none of their business if you don't want to tell them.
Yes, I would let those around me know so they can figure out how to deal with me.
2007-02-13 14:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell the Dr. and my Hubby but it isn't anyone elses business.
2007-02-13 14:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋