Ok, so I'm a sophomore in college and my freshman year I was friends with a certain girl for one semester. I came back over the summer lookin pretty slick (lol) and now we have 3 classes together a year later. Were both interested in eachother and have gone out to her favorite "hang out" place three times. We haven't been real serious, should I have gotten her a V-Day gift?
2007-02-13 14:05:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, I like the suggestion about getting her a card and letting her pick a day to go out and eat cause she works 3 jobs and her schedule is tight. Is this sufficient. How does that sound.
2007-02-13 14:19:53 · update #1
um...sex? lol! no...just kidding!
Maybe if you two likes physical activities like sports, how about taking him out for a day of ice skating? toboganning? Then you could stop by Starbucks for some hot cocoa's.
If she's a bit of a bookworm, get him an excellent novel (a girl novel like "Kite Runner" or "Funny Bones" and the like)
Does she enjoy cooking? Maybe buy her a recipe book, or better yet, gather all your mom's and aunt's and grandma's recipe and compile them into a personal creative recipe book.
Likes watching movies? Buy a favourite chick flick ("Mean Girls"), drama, action, thriller/ horror, comedy movie, or dance movie (i.e. "Step it Up" or "You Got Served") If she likes old films, try looking for 'em on Target or Wal-Mart. Better yet, buy those that comes in a 3-pack collections.
Prefer to listen to music? Get her a cd collection of her favourite band or artist or an mp3 / ipod player.
Here's what NOT to get your girl for v-day: a video game!, and any electronics deemed too "sophistaced" for her to handle (okay, maybe a dvd player or a tv or a radio and the like are passable)
If ALL else seems unplausible then go traditional and head fast to a botanist flower shop near you.
Hope you find your valentine's present soon and good luck!
2007-02-13 14:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you but coming from a girls stand point we all love surprises. If you just want to stay on an easy pace for now why not get her a card and stick a bow (pretty) on the card and on the inside ask her to pick a day you can go to lunch together. That's better than nothing and shows you still care. Id love it.
2007-02-13 14:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by nannasducky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, but a card would be nice-not too mushy, no "love" stuff, more of a friendship-thinking of u type of thing. Go slow, find out what u have in common, ur likes-dislikes. As things progress, then get her a gift for her BD, or some `other special occassion. Good Luck.
2007-02-13 14:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by louise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably should have gotten her something small, just to let her know that you're thinking of her and interested in her as a girlfriend.
2007-02-13 14:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by krystiinkay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your worried about it I would buy her a single flower. Something that would express the both of you and where you guys are in your relationship. I think it would be a sweet gesture!
Cheers!
2007-02-13 14:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by Whos your mama? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see no harm in giving her one even if it was just a friendly, sweet Valentine's gift (it's not like a promise ring or an engagement ring or anything).She's your friend, give it a shot!
2007-02-13 14:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gift isn't really necessary but a nice card wouldn't hurt.. you cheapskate.
2007-02-13 14:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jim F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A simple card and a bouquet of flowers (not roses) would suffice. Depends how into her you are.
2007-02-13 14:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by young61021 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it shows that u care. u might not believe it but wen u lose her, u will feel really bad...a great crushing feeling that sinks your heart and depresses you to the core. don't lose your girl bcos u did not buy her anything for valentine's day
2007-02-13 14:10:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah of course. it can just a be a simple friendly gesture or more depending what u buy or how much u are willlin to spend
2007-02-13 14:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by aznken901 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋