She said she was in a really complicated situation and she didn't want to drag me into it? What does she mean by that. She said it Wasn't me, was it just to be nice?
Should I call back a later date and ask her if she got out of her complicated situation?
2007-02-13 13:19:27 · 13 answers · asked by JoeIQ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could have been just a nice way to reject you, but it could also be legitimate. If she is in a complicated situation, it would only complicate things more to bring you into her life right now. I don't see any harm in waiting a while - like more than a day or two - think more along the lines of a month or so, befor calling back to see if she's open to going out with you. If, at that time, you get a similar response, you will know for sure it was a nice let down. If you get a different response, go for it!
Either way, good luck with your love life!
2007-02-13 13:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by Marvelissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a personal experience....
one possibilty is that she really IS in a complicated situation,whether its with family, friends, or an ex (old flame, etc)
sometimes a girl needs some time to sort things out before she decides to date again
another possibility is that she just doesn't feel the same way, "complicated situation" could be used as an "universal" excuse to reject a guy ...
best of luck to you tho =] hope u can get ur lady
2007-02-13 21:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by heartbeatsredwine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, there is one of two ways that you can look at this:
(1) She is in a real complicated situation which she does not have anytime rignt now for additional matters of the heart
(2) That was her way of saying 'I ONLY like you as a friend'
I suggest you wait a couple of days. If she avoids you, then it was the second option. If she is still cool about it, wait a month and ask her out again.
2007-02-13 21:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could either mean she is really in a bad situation or just blowing you off. Try to call back at a later date. What do you have to lose?
2007-02-13 21:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by tchem75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just not interested. If she was no situation would keep her from going out with you. The one thing that women want is CONFIDENCE. When you act like your hot that's what she will see in you. don't call her back act like you could care less. it might not work but someone else might notice you never know
2007-02-13 21:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably means shes still sorta with someone....but still sorta not at the same time. For whatever reason. Give a couple weeks or even possibly a month (if your willing to wait that long)before asking her again. By then she should have things figured out.
2007-02-13 21:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in all a call back would justify if u really was dumped? maybe she freaked or u spooked her in some way? depends on ur sitation and all like how u met, where, what was said, etc.... maybe she is telling the truth? but if u do wait a few and call back and get the reject a second time, going fishing
2007-02-13 21:23:45 · answer #7 · answered by sweetnlovenkindagurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
complicated situation could mean many different things...she knows you are interested...I would leave it at that...
If she is really interested in you , and truly is in the situation...if she gets out..she will contact u.
y set urself up for rejection twice?
2007-02-13 21:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by daisy31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could let her know that you would like to take her out, and that if the time ever comes that she's free, to give you a call. Then leave it at that.
2007-02-13 21:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times when a girl says that there might be another guy that she is trying to decide between you and him. If she wants you back she'll find you don't badger her or she won't want to be with you.
2007-02-13 21:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by Adam K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋