He never liked me and has made it perfectly clear he never will, but no matter how hard I try, I cant get over him. My friend KNOWS I love him, but insists on sending him the gushy-est valentine to declare how much she likes him. I try to let it be, but I cant. Its infuriating. I cant let it rest. I really need help... Please?
2007-02-13 12:48:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alright sweety. I have a friend in the exact same situation except the guy was her first "time" and so its deep. Now he said he never liked her or had feelings for her. so the only way to move on was to try other guys which she did. but she kept thinking about him and now shes alone again with only him to think about. the only think that helped her was to do something just plain fun. this weekend camp out on a beach with your girlfriends and just laugh and have fun and enjoy yourself. you will see how much fun you can have without him and there is no way of getting out of it easily. you just have to let time take its course. About your friend she a b*tch. Not a true friend and is egotistical and arrogant. looks to me like you have to get a new friend. for sure! Im so sorry you have to go through this and i wish you the best of luck!
2007-02-13 12:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A broken relationship is never easily forgotten. The longer the relationship, the longer the hurt and it would take much longer to forget. You have to be patience with yourself, and time is the only factor that will help u to erase him from your mind. The most important thing is to keep yourself busy and occupied thus giving little time for you to run thru your memory. Try to widen your circle of friends so that it would be easier for you to fade him away
2007-02-13 20:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by lanks20032003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i know its hard but you have to let him go;; your a wounderful person inside and one of these days some one will see that and then u will see that and them and then you will fall in love with this new person and forget all about this other guy;; Ask yourself how are you going to meet this new wounderful person if you still loving a guy that don't love you;; good luck girl and remember ur wounderful no matter what....
2007-02-13 20:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by kimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liz,
There is no easy way to live with a broken heart. You must distance yourself as far away from him as possible, don't call him, drive past his home or work. You will always have a soft spot in your heart but you must move on if you want to be happy.
2007-02-13 20:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by Just ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i know how u feel,but u gotta think dont u deserve better.u shouldnt have to drool over sum guy who doesnt like u like dat,or the way he treats u r u satisfied?? u should find sumeone who loves or likes u for u
2007-02-13 20:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup i know it seems hard to get over a guy when you really like them but why do u wanrt a guy that doesnt like you u should try to find a guy that loves you and apreciate you how u desserve to be !!!!!!!!! and u dont want to look desperate !!!!!!!! so i suggest u dont send that valentine !!!!!!
2007-02-13 20:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he's not interested. you need to move on, find someone worth your love and get on with your life. I don't know what to say about your friend.
2007-02-13 20:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Adam K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW. IM IN THE SAME. BOAT. GO OUT WIIT YOUR FRIENDS.AND MEET LOTS OF GUYS. I KNOW YOU WONT GET OVER HIM THAT FAST BUT ITLL HELP FORGIVE HIM AT LEAST FOR AWHILE. OR ARE U SURE ITS NOT AN OBSSESSION CAUSE THATS SURELY NOT LOVE
2007-02-13 20:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by celeste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know if he will like. coming from somone who used to be in that situation find someone better. any one. if ur firend likes him to than take it in stride and be xtra nice and give him xtra attention. ur friend has no more chance htan you.
2007-02-13 20:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by annabanana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be fine, just try and look at the big picture.
2007-02-13 20:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋