guy (that a girl has been friends with since she was born) says that if he wasnt with his gf he would want to be with her. And tells her that he loves her (while his gf is out of town) and hangs out with her all weekend and sleeps in her bed (but no sex). Then his gf comes back and he says that he Just did all those things to make her feel better because she is going through a divorce. Did he really just do that to make her feel better? or does he really have feeling for her and is confused? or what???
2007-02-13 12:47:12 · 11 answers · asked by cuteness 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I got to tell you, most likely he was just saying those things but not necessarily for the reason that he gave. If he really loved you and wanted to be with you he wouldn't have a gf anymore. It was most likely just something that he said because he wanted to have some type of intimacy and companionship while his girlfriend was away. Considering that u have known him since u were born, I would think that if he really liked you that u would already know.
2007-02-13 12:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by Vince R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beware, He might just be testing the waters so to speak. If you have been going through a divorce then deal with that first and keep your distance from him. If later it's meant to be then fine and great and all the bells and whistles. But if not then you could lose a friend forever and never really know what could have been .
2007-02-13 12:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is confused, but also greedy. He wants both girls, but
doesn't want gf to know about it. Girl, I'd say to you, "He's a
loser. Dump him for someone you can trust and rely on. What's
to say that if you two were the couple, he wouldn't still mess
around with others? No, he wants all the candy without paying
the price.
2007-02-13 13:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is confused. He shouldn't be doing those things with his g.f. out of town. A girl going through a divorce doesn't need a guy like this. He's not mature nor honest.
2007-02-13 12:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by DuckyWucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has feelings but feels is stuck in the being friends relationship. Just show your interest in doing a little more and he may come around. Might just need to be showed that you can be more than just friends.
2007-02-13 12:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wanted to get laid...he doesn't care or love you. If he did he would dump his girl and be with you. He was just using you to get some from you.
Don't fall for his games ok...your better then that .. if you need to chat contact me .. we can talk k.
2007-02-13 12:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he likes the girl (not gf.) But I wouldn't trust him he sounds like a lier and a ********.
2007-02-13 12:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by transfusionsb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phone him in five years and ask him. In the meantime, keep your distance.
2007-02-13 12:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by bullwinkle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although it is possible he is confused. i'm sorry to say i don't belive him. his acition speak much louder than his words.
i don't think he did it for anyone but, himself becuse he felt like it.
2007-02-13 12:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by siddragoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to talk with him about it, if he does have feelings he needs to be forward about it with her or they will be nothing more than feelings.
2007-02-13 12:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by Poptart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋