Me and my ex b-f talk now that im single he told me that he really still likes me because i was sopposovely his first love but i told him straight out hat i stil love my ex and he understands !!! but today he asked me to get married with him tommorow no no not get realy married but pretend like a marriage booth at ur school !!!!!!!!!! and i told him i dont know if i do !!! do u think if i do that would make him like me more !!! but i dont want to be a ***** and say no !!! what should i do ??
2007-02-13 12:41:49 · 9 answers · asked by princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? Does he have one of those rings that squirts water? If yes you should go ahead with the marriage, but don't take gum from him if he already chewed on it.
2007-02-13 12:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you sense is good. in case you do no longer want to get married to him do no longer. purely tell him which you adult adult males had a tremendous concern however the biggest word is "HAD". tell him you have a boyfriend now which you're thrilled with. do no longer pay attention on your human beings and relatives in this may be your in basic terms risk to get married. i'm 24 and nonetheless no longer married and that i'm nice with that and that i've got distinctive different buddies interior the comparable boat as me. Marriage isn't something you want to hurry into. You and your modern boyfriend have not been jointly very long so provide it time who's conscious of.
2016-12-17 15:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think of his feelings in this as well as your own, if as far as you are concerned there is no chance of the two of you having an honest and equal relationship then you must say no - to do anything else would be dishonest and unfair to both of you.
Just say him to him very calmly that you are flattered that he asked and you value his friendship but you don't have those kind of feleings for him, He sounds like a nice guy and I'm sure he will understand.
Best of luck.
2007-02-13 12:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to, then don't. If you want to, then do. It's your choice, you decision, and you owe no explaination to anyone.
You said you're still into your other ex. What is that ex doing to get your attention? Do what makes you happy and brings you joy. I can't imagine sitting around weepy eyed over an ex-boyfriend does that. Been there, done that. Get out there and live life, whatever that means to you.
2007-02-13 12:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still like your x then you shouldn't go through with the pretend marriage. It may send the wrong signals to this guy as well as your x that you still like.
2007-02-13 12:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't accept it because he had leave you before but he made a comeback. he maybe will leave you again. maybe you is just a spare part for him. you might don't know. Think about it wisely.
2007-02-13 12:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you still like him than you should pretend marry him
2007-02-13 12:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by AnAlUp3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't like him anymore than don't lead him on
2007-02-13 12:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by lisa_08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth!
2007-02-13 12:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋