i met my girlfriend online about 3 months ago but we have never met in person...lately shes been acting different and last night she told me she dosent know if her love for me is "real" because we have never met in person.I tell her i want to come visit her but shes scared that she'll feel differently about me if we meet in person. what can i do to make her want me to come visit?i need help!
2007-02-13 12:39:54 · 12 answers · asked by ben v 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well its not just an internet relationship. we talk on the phone more than we talk online. we just met on here...so its not that weird haha
2007-02-13 12:50:18 · update #1
Oh boy this has happened to me !!!! well having a long distance relationship is hard when you dont really know the girl u dont know how she acts around guys etc... and you said shes been acting different well that simply could mean different things for ex ...theres someone else (sorry) unsecurity,or maybe she was lying about some stuff about her!!!!!! and what u should tell that girl is that if u guys never meet u wont be sure if u guys are meant for each other and thats why you should meet and if u guys have good conversations online on the phone why wouldnt you guys like each other in person !!! well good luck babe !!!!!!!!
2007-02-13 12:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone want to do anything they don't want to do it seems that she might have someone on the side because if it was me and i had never seen my boyfriend i would be so ready and excited yet a little nervous to see him.I don't know the circumstances but i wouldn't have waited three months to see her.if you really care about someone how could seeing them make you feel differently that means your feelings weren't genuine and unconditional.I hope I was of some help but i think she has lost her interest if she any had any real interest ,that really makes you wonder her intentions all along!
2007-02-13 20:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by TRUTH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but you cannot force her to continue this if she's not willing to. She's obviously not 100% into this relationship and hence, is having all these doubts.
On the other hand, she's probably more afraid that you might reject her once you meet up.
Maybe it's better you guys give each other space. Go see (literally) other people!
2007-02-13 20:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by snoringcouchprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot have a girlfriend on the internet.
That is not true love.
Get of the internet and find a real girl.
2007-02-13 20:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by ulu2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh, just another online romance. what about loving the old fashioned way?! hey im only a teen but love seemed to last longer before. i mean, do you see how many divorces there are these days?
2007-02-13 21:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by hollywoodhills 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first of all, you shouldn't be dating online. uhm thats just weird. and you can't think you're in love, by the effing INTERNET. go get a LIFE. AND MEET SOMEONE IN REAL LIFE INSTEAD OF ONLINE. they could be a predator, or old man or nasty old woman. forget her, go meet someone in PERSON.
2007-02-13 20:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by bby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her. you dont have much of a relationship unless you hang out in person. you pretty much dont know anything about her. what if its some person online pretending to be her? well, then they got you good...
2007-02-13 20:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by Cheerleading, My Anti-Drug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man forget about this girl u meat her over the Internet i don't think is going to last
2007-02-13 20:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by sweets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me. heres what you have to do. find an internet program that can investigate people. find out where she lives and as much information out about her as you can. come to her house un announced, and bring flowers. thats what i did for my wife and look at us now!
2007-02-13 20:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lawrence M. Enopee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does she expect? To have online/phone sex for life?
2007-02-13 20:42:52 · answer #10 · answered by Toilet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋