me and my ex boy friend are still really close we still love each and everything, my friend says maybe he just wants to "explore", in a way to make sure I'm who he wants to be with the rest of his life. We act like were going out. we do everything together and do what couples do together. should I wait and see or what?
2007-02-13 12:36:37 · 7 answers · asked by sam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 18 and i really want to be with him
2007-02-13 12:56:25 · update #1
im 18 and i really want to be with him
2007-02-13 12:56:33 · update #2
no take you time you guys seem lovable!! take it from a girl with experiance this is not a bad situation. if you do everything together and really communicate the it is just fine
2007-02-13 12:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by lil' baby nisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way girl! The waiting game is never fair, and someone always ends up hurt!! trust me, i waited for seven years!! And, we did things together which made it seem like we were together too..If he's trying to explore let him do it on his own time and with someone else. You shouldn't have to wait for someone to decide if they care about you or not, he should already know. Take some space. If he wants to be with you, he will come back to you and want to be with only you...Otherwise you are letting him use you in the meantime. This is a little blunt, but true!
2007-02-13 20:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i f you still like him i would wiat a bit. try not to rush things but dont wait so long you lose interest. when you are sure i would tell him that he is still the one that you want. if he doesnt feel the same way move on and he will prob. get jealous and come back. if not meet someone better and stay friends.
2007-02-13 20:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by annabanana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your heart tells you that he is who you really want to be with, than i suggest that you go for it. if he is just exploring to see if you are who he really wants to be with than i think you should do the same. you never know what you may find!
2007-02-13 20:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by artsyvet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is unfaithful, he doesn't need to explore if he really loves you
You deserve better
2007-02-13 20:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by ulu2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are and what you want.
2007-02-13 20:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go for it!
2007-02-13 20:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by brown eyed gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋