You have to be comfortable and self assured to have conversations regarding sex. If you are not ready then your boyfriend should respect that. Don't do anything you are not ready to do or you could grow up to regret it. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders, don't let anyone convince you otherwise.
2007-02-13 12:28:00
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answered by My Opinion Counts for Me 1
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No! You should never do anything that makes you uncomfortable in order to please anyone!
Next time he brings it up, say politely but firmly "I don't like talking about this. Please don't bring it up with me again." If he respects you at all, he will have no problem with this request. If he pitches a fit of any kind, ditch him. He will have made it entirely clear what he values (i.e. talking about sex over your comfort and happiness) and is not worthy of you.
2007-02-13 12:29:12
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answered by Anonymous
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Be honest with him and tell him it makes you uncomfortable and when you are ready you will let him know. If he cant understand that then you shouldnt be with him.
Stand your moral ground and dont change just to make someone happy.
2007-02-13 12:27:06
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answered by Jessica S 4
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hell know. If u can't have a general conversation wit ur man then there iz a problem. If he can't accept the fact that u would rather discuss something else then u could do better. Let him know how u feel and see wat he says. If he loves u then he would respect that
2007-02-13 12:25:56
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answered by Anonymous
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