So i really like this guy, he asked me to dance at my formal two weeks ago. i felt sooo special, and i cant stop thinking about him. the only thing is, he's kind of like a player. well, he'll come up and tlk to you and give you this huge, tight, hug that makes you feel soo special, but then he'll do it to every other girl he knows pretty much, or at least some of them. like sometimes we'll make eye contact and he'll just keep walking, but so do I. other times, he'll stop and tlk to me and give me that heart-wrenching hug. :) so i dont know what to do, i tlk to him, but its so awkward b/c im really really shy. only with guys i like tho, with my friends, guy or girl, im crazy and fun, but especially with him, there's nothing i can say and i get nervous. what can i do??
2007-02-13 11:53:59 · 6 answers · asked by Marissa R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oohh..gurl i felt the same way a week ago.players never prosper.dont go 4 a PLAYER.they alwayz want u 2 think they luv u and u r the only one but really they r out 2 get 1 thing.i know it is hard cause they r so cute,but u caint fall in2 their tricks.it is a perfect sign if he is hugin other gurls,if he is doin that now,what do u think he is goin 2 do when u guys r goin out? i get shy went i get around boys i like,but u have 2 over come ur shyness and b urself,that is what guys like best,try 2 be loose even though it is hard.i could tell u like him,but u need 2 find the person that isn't the player type,find one that will respect u. but u need 2 get over that PLAYER cause he wont respect u!!!!!!!
2007-02-13 12:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by â?¥Ms.ToP nOtCh ChIcKâ?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a player to me. If your into that type of person then go for it, but be prepared to get your heart broken. Guys like to have alot of options when it comes to women,.
2007-02-13 20:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by samsonpwnz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he's a player, don't get too comfortable if you get together... and if he hugs and talks to any other girl he could be just being friendly, it's not like just cuz he talk to you and hugs you he magically likes you, sorry to burst your bubble, but it is reality. anyways, i wish you two the best of luck. <3
2007-02-13 19:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by wind it up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this. This guy obviously thinks he can hug any girl he wants. The next time he tries to hug you, step back and say "I hardly know you"
2007-02-13 20:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by The Seeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"he's kind of like a player"
kind of? either he is, or he isn't.
and if you are looking for a true relationship, this guy doesn't sound like the one that is going to give you want you need.
2007-02-13 19:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not into u
2007-02-13 19:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by slp32 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋