courage for talking to a girl?

Question

I have good opprotunities to talk to his girl I like bu i always chicken out, and advice on how to build up some courage to talk to her?

Answer 1

Repeat to yourself in the mirror everyday positive things about yourself . What you have to offer to others and especially the opposite sex. You don't lack courage you simple lack confidence in your self worth. It's ok we all do it. We put others on a pedestal and strain to see ourselves as equals or having desirable traits to attract that other person. Remember this if you never remember anything else. Confidence is the most attractive quality anyone can have. Think about it. Really how many girls do you remember that passed you with their heads down in an insecure way and covered and guarded behavior. Not many right.Now think about the one that stole your heart with that first glance. She wasn't shy she wasn't insecure she wasn't ugly because she loved herself enough to look nice.She might not have been the best looking girl you had ever seen but she had something that oozed confidence something that you never will forget. That's the difference between being remembered and not. That's the difference that could put you in the mind of that girl forever or not. Good luck I know you can do it.

Answer 2

Rejection sucks but girls like a guy with self-confidence. You might get shot down from time to time, but women are impressed with a guy who is willing to put himself out there. Sometimes I find that it's best to test the waters before taking a plunge. Talk to her and see how she responds to you. If you get a sense that she likes you then ask her out. If it seems that she's only interested in friendship or just being polite then move on. Women give signals that a guy can read if he's paying attention and you can tell whether she's into you or not.

Answer 3

If your lack of courage is about communicating with the opposite sex then you delete her sex in your mind. Think of her as just another human on this planet. How do you talk to female family members? Just do the same with her. Also jump right in with the next opportunity, practise makes perfect. If you fail in this attempt just keep trying always. When we don't take chances in life we end up standing still forever. Good Luck....

Answer 4

If you really like her just go up to her and plainly tell her yeah its that easy. She will be glad you did trust me. She will be flattered even if she doesnt fell the same way you'll never know unless you give it a shot. What do you have to lose. If she doesnt know you have like a small party(10 people max) and invite her so you get a chance to talk to her without making things awkward. Just go for it, find out what she likes by talking to her and when your ready make a move, ask her out!

Answer 5

If you want to get some tips I would consider to find out what she is into like what are her hobbies? what's her favorite music? what does she like to do in her free time? That might work. Or you could talk to some of her friends and ask them about her, but when you do, casually bring it up because if you ask it straight out they'll suspect something. Anyways, you could also try out what you are going to say to her in front of a mirror, "Practice makes perfect" as the saying goes. If that doesn't fit you try what you are going to say on your friends like a role reversal. There's some advice for you. Tell me if it works. Good Luck!

Answer 6

When I was in high school, I asked a girl out. She told me no, so I asked her why. She told me she thought I was a [yahoo will censor it].

So I knew right away that I could stop thinking about this girl. You will never know if you don't ask.

Nobody likes rejection, but rejection is not lung cancer. It's a teeny thing, and the more you ask the more you'll toughen up.Gotta start somewhere-go for it.

Answer 7

You need to make sure you feel comfortable around her. Being awkward would make her awkward in turn.

I am a shy person myself, so I understand what you're going through. Remember, she is a person just like yourself. There is no need to get nervous. Talk to her when you're in an informal setting and where there are a lot of people around. Remember your good points, how awesome you are, and be confidant (i.e. don't act it).

Don't think too hard about it and just go for it. Good luck!

Answer 8

Compliment something she is wearing or something safe. If she becomes interested and becomes talkative after you show obvious interest, then she likes you bro. If she kind of shrugs it off like you didn't say anything, then she doesn't like you. But not all hope is lost. But it will be easier to snag her if the latter is true. But overall confidence confidence confidence. Women flock to confidence. Not arrogance, humble confidence. Being dressed well and well groomed (don't overdo it with cologne...it cries desperate) doesn't hurt. Gluck!

Answer 9

just be calm cool and collected. Try not to look nervouus or she might just think your a pussy. Ask about her and give her complements (one or two at the most). Dont jibber jabber all about yourself and let her talk and ask stuff as well. Find out things she is interested in. When you have that you will have almost no problem.

Answer 10

If you really feel all shy or whatever just get like 3 beers man this shyt works . Once i traveled to aruba and me and some friends went to this prostitution spot and i was like theres no way i could walk up to any girl. I got so ****** up man i was spanking that hoe in her room. and it was only $20 USA dollars :)